Anyone w/CF not want to have kids?

ERINSBIZ

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It's all upon desire. No one could tell me not to have children. I had been healthy all my life so why wouldn't I continue that train. Well the Dr. did warn that it could take a toll on your health; it's like me telling a pregnant woman to sleep and enjoy free time before the bundle arrives. Because it arrives like a mac truck crashing into you. Well now I see the affects because I have lived it.

But every time I start feeling great I add more to my plate. "Oh, I can work part time and contribute to our finances" but then I start letting my health goals go by the wayside. So now I am reconsidering my wonderful part time job at my boys school to not work, so I can fit in exercise, breathing tx, meds, etc. just to maintain a healthy status. Because being a mom and housewife is more than a full time job. However, would never ever ever regret having my wonderfully, silly, wild, boys.
 

ERINSBIZ

New member
It's all upon desire. No one could tell me not to have children. I had been healthy all my life so why wouldn't I continue that train. Well the Dr. did warn that it could take a toll on your health; it's like me telling a pregnant woman to sleep and enjoy free time before the bundle arrives. Because it arrives like a mac truck crashing into you. Well now I see the affects because I have lived it.

But every time I start feeling great I add more to my plate. "Oh, I can work part time and contribute to our finances" but then I start letting my health goals go by the wayside. So now I am reconsidering my wonderful part time job at my boys school to not work, so I can fit in exercise, breathing tx, meds, etc. just to maintain a healthy status. Because being a mom and housewife is more than a full time job. However, would never ever ever regret having my wonderfully, silly, wild, boys.
 

ERINSBIZ

New member
It's all upon desire. No one could tell me not to have children. I had been healthy all my life so why wouldn't I continue that train. Well the Dr. did warn that it could take a toll on your health; it's like me telling a pregnant woman to sleep and enjoy free time before the bundle arrives. Because it arrives like a mac truck crashing into you. Well now I see the affects because I have lived it.

But every time I start feeling great I add more to my plate. "Oh, I can work part time and contribute to our finances" but then I start letting my health goals go by the wayside. So now I am reconsidering my wonderful part time job at my boys school to not work, so I can fit in exercise, breathing tx, meds, etc. just to maintain a healthy status. Because being a mom and housewife is more than a full time job. However, would never ever ever regret having my wonderfully, silly, wild, boys.
 

ERINSBIZ

New member
It's all upon desire. No one could tell me not to have children. I had been healthy all my life so why wouldn't I continue that train. Well the Dr. did warn that it could take a toll on your health; it's like me telling a pregnant woman to sleep and enjoy free time before the bundle arrives. Because it arrives like a mac truck crashing into you. Well now I see the affects because I have lived it.

But every time I start feeling great I add more to my plate. "Oh, I can work part time and contribute to our finances" but then I start letting my health goals go by the wayside. So now I am reconsidering my wonderful part time job at my boys school to not work, so I can fit in exercise, breathing tx, meds, etc. just to maintain a healthy status. Because being a mom and housewife is more than a full time job. However, would never ever ever regret having my wonderfully, silly, wild, boys.
 

ERINSBIZ

New member
It's all upon desire. No one could tell me not to have children. I had been healthy all my life so why wouldn't I continue that train. Well the Dr. did warn that it could take a toll on your health; it's like me telling a pregnant woman to sleep and enjoy free time before the bundle arrives. Because it arrives like a mac truck crashing into you. Well now I see the affects because I have lived it.
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<br />But every time I start feeling great I add more to my plate. "Oh, I can work part time and contribute to our finances" but then I start letting my health goals go by the wayside. So now I am reconsidering my wonderful part time job at my boys school to not work, so I can fit in exercise, breathing tx, meds, etc. just to maintain a healthy status. Because being a mom and housewife is more than a full time job. However, would never ever ever regret having my wonderfully, silly, wild, boys.
 

jenhum

New member
I have to say I have struggled quite a bit with this issue. All my life, all I've wanted to be is a mom. I love children, and that is truly all I've ever wanted for my life. So for me, I'm not sure if I would ever be 100% happy without a child. So I decided that it is worth it for me, and now I am 23 weeks pregnant.

I will say though, that I am so blessed to have circumstances that make it possible. I found my husband at an early age, he is wonderful and supportive and is fortunate to make enough money for me to stay home and not work. I know I couldn't be a mom and work too, it would be too much for me. I also have an extremely supportive set of parents, and my mom doesn't work so she is always able to come stay with me and help whenever I need her. If my circumstances were different, I may have had to make the tough choice not to have children. I have decided only to have one, for the sake of my health.

I won't lie though- I'm terrified of the sleepless nights that this baby will bring. I know it's going to be really hard on me. But I definitely don't think there is anything wrong with not having any children. That's a very personal decision and hopefully one that people put a lot of thought into.
 

jenhum

New member
I have to say I have struggled quite a bit with this issue. All my life, all I've wanted to be is a mom. I love children, and that is truly all I've ever wanted for my life. So for me, I'm not sure if I would ever be 100% happy without a child. So I decided that it is worth it for me, and now I am 23 weeks pregnant.

I will say though, that I am so blessed to have circumstances that make it possible. I found my husband at an early age, he is wonderful and supportive and is fortunate to make enough money for me to stay home and not work. I know I couldn't be a mom and work too, it would be too much for me. I also have an extremely supportive set of parents, and my mom doesn't work so she is always able to come stay with me and help whenever I need her. If my circumstances were different, I may have had to make the tough choice not to have children. I have decided only to have one, for the sake of my health.

I won't lie though- I'm terrified of the sleepless nights that this baby will bring. I know it's going to be really hard on me. But I definitely don't think there is anything wrong with not having any children. That's a very personal decision and hopefully one that people put a lot of thought into.
 

jenhum

New member
I have to say I have struggled quite a bit with this issue. All my life, all I've wanted to be is a mom. I love children, and that is truly all I've ever wanted for my life. So for me, I'm not sure if I would ever be 100% happy without a child. So I decided that it is worth it for me, and now I am 23 weeks pregnant.

I will say though, that I am so blessed to have circumstances that make it possible. I found my husband at an early age, he is wonderful and supportive and is fortunate to make enough money for me to stay home and not work. I know I couldn't be a mom and work too, it would be too much for me. I also have an extremely supportive set of parents, and my mom doesn't work so she is always able to come stay with me and help whenever I need her. If my circumstances were different, I may have had to make the tough choice not to have children. I have decided only to have one, for the sake of my health.

I won't lie though- I'm terrified of the sleepless nights that this baby will bring. I know it's going to be really hard on me. But I definitely don't think there is anything wrong with not having any children. That's a very personal decision and hopefully one that people put a lot of thought into.
 

jenhum

New member
I have to say I have struggled quite a bit with this issue. All my life, all I've wanted to be is a mom. I love children, and that is truly all I've ever wanted for my life. So for me, I'm not sure if I would ever be 100% happy without a child. So I decided that it is worth it for me, and now I am 23 weeks pregnant.

I will say though, that I am so blessed to have circumstances that make it possible. I found my husband at an early age, he is wonderful and supportive and is fortunate to make enough money for me to stay home and not work. I know I couldn't be a mom and work too, it would be too much for me. I also have an extremely supportive set of parents, and my mom doesn't work so she is always able to come stay with me and help whenever I need her. If my circumstances were different, I may have had to make the tough choice not to have children. I have decided only to have one, for the sake of my health.

I won't lie though- I'm terrified of the sleepless nights that this baby will bring. I know it's going to be really hard on me. But I definitely don't think there is anything wrong with not having any children. That's a very personal decision and hopefully one that people put a lot of thought into.
 

jenhum

New member
I have to say I have struggled quite a bit with this issue. All my life, all I've wanted to be is a mom. I love children, and that is truly all I've ever wanted for my life. So for me, I'm not sure if I would ever be 100% happy without a child. So I decided that it is worth it for me, and now I am 23 weeks pregnant.
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<br />I will say though, that I am so blessed to have circumstances that make it possible. I found my husband at an early age, he is wonderful and supportive and is fortunate to make enough money for me to stay home and not work. I know I couldn't be a mom and work too, it would be too much for me. I also have an extremely supportive set of parents, and my mom doesn't work so she is always able to come stay with me and help whenever I need her. If my circumstances were different, I may have had to make the tough choice not to have children. I have decided only to have one, for the sake of my health.
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<br />I won't lie though- I'm terrified of the sleepless nights that this baby will bring. I know it's going to be really hard on me. But I definitely don't think there is anything wrong with not having any children. That's a very personal decision and hopefully one that people put a lot of thought into.
 

thefrogprincess

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Not me. I used to want kids so bad!! All I ever wanted was to get married and make babies. Well, then my marriage crashed and burned, my health took a dive, and I smashed my face into the reality that my poor body could NOT handle a kid. I barely have the energy to take care of myself some days so there is no way I could chase after a kid too. I am all for people having kids if they can handle it and want them, good for you! I'm just not one of them.
 

thefrogprincess

New member
Not me. I used to want kids so bad!! All I ever wanted was to get married and make babies. Well, then my marriage crashed and burned, my health took a dive, and I smashed my face into the reality that my poor body could NOT handle a kid. I barely have the energy to take care of myself some days so there is no way I could chase after a kid too. I am all for people having kids if they can handle it and want them, good for you! I'm just not one of them.
 

thefrogprincess

New member
Not me. I used to want kids so bad!! All I ever wanted was to get married and make babies. Well, then my marriage crashed and burned, my health took a dive, and I smashed my face into the reality that my poor body could NOT handle a kid. I barely have the energy to take care of myself some days so there is no way I could chase after a kid too. I am all for people having kids if they can handle it and want them, good for you! I'm just not one of them.
 

thefrogprincess

New member
Not me. I used to want kids so bad!! All I ever wanted was to get married and make babies. Well, then my marriage crashed and burned, my health took a dive, and I smashed my face into the reality that my poor body could NOT handle a kid. I barely have the energy to take care of myself some days so there is no way I could chase after a kid too. I am all for people having kids if they can handle it and want them, good for you! I'm just not one of them.
 

thefrogprincess

New member
Not me. I used to want kids so bad!! All I ever wanted was to get married and make babies. Well, then my marriage crashed and burned, my health took a dive, and I smashed my face into the reality that my poor body could NOT handle a kid. I barely have the energy to take care of myself some days so there is no way I could chase after a kid too. I am all for people having kids if they can handle it and want them, good for you! I'm just not one of them.
 

Solo

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I would have to say "no" to the whole reproduction idea. Mostly due to the fact that there is no cure for this illness and probably won't be for a very long time. I would not wish CF on my worst enemy, let alone one of my offspring. Your children need to be shown love and affection, I could not look myself in the mirror knowing that I brought a child into this world with this horrible affliction.

But being is I cannot have children the traditional way, I would still opt out of adoption. The decision to care for a child is a colossal defining moment in your life; not a decision to be taken lightly. For 18 years of your life you are gonna be financially responsible for a whole other organism. What I personally believe the crux of this idea boils down to is how strong you feel about your relationship. I think to bring a child into the equation you must first think about the child. As soon as a kid enters the fray it is first and foremost an individual. A child that is in a negative environment is not fulfilling for them. For instance you might have a very mild case of CF, with great PFTS-now, but what about 5 or 6 years down the road. CF can creep up in a moments notice if you neglect your care and treatment regimes. My point is that it's a slippery slope; and one you might not want to venture on if you have an unremitting illness.
 

Solo

New member
I would have to say "no" to the whole reproduction idea. Mostly due to the fact that there is no cure for this illness and probably won't be for a very long time. I would not wish CF on my worst enemy, let alone one of my offspring. Your children need to be shown love and affection, I could not look myself in the mirror knowing that I brought a child into this world with this horrible affliction.

But being is I cannot have children the traditional way, I would still opt out of adoption. The decision to care for a child is a colossal defining moment in your life; not a decision to be taken lightly. For 18 years of your life you are gonna be financially responsible for a whole other organism. What I personally believe the crux of this idea boils down to is how strong you feel about your relationship. I think to bring a child into the equation you must first think about the child. As soon as a kid enters the fray it is first and foremost an individual. A child that is in a negative environment is not fulfilling for them. For instance you might have a very mild case of CF, with great PFTS-now, but what about 5 or 6 years down the road. CF can creep up in a moments notice if you neglect your care and treatment regimes. My point is that it's a slippery slope; and one you might not want to venture on if you have an unremitting illness.
 

Solo

New member
I would have to say "no" to the whole reproduction idea. Mostly due to the fact that there is no cure for this illness and probably won't be for a very long time. I would not wish CF on my worst enemy, let alone one of my offspring. Your children need to be shown love and affection, I could not look myself in the mirror knowing that I brought a child into this world with this horrible affliction.

But being is I cannot have children the traditional way, I would still opt out of adoption. The decision to care for a child is a colossal defining moment in your life; not a decision to be taken lightly. For 18 years of your life you are gonna be financially responsible for a whole other organism. What I personally believe the crux of this idea boils down to is how strong you feel about your relationship. I think to bring a child into the equation you must first think about the child. As soon as a kid enters the fray it is first and foremost an individual. A child that is in a negative environment is not fulfilling for them. For instance you might have a very mild case of CF, with great PFTS-now, but what about 5 or 6 years down the road. CF can creep up in a moments notice if you neglect your care and treatment regimes. My point is that it's a slippery slope; and one you might not want to venture on if you have an unremitting illness.
 

Solo

New member
I would have to say "no" to the whole reproduction idea. Mostly due to the fact that there is no cure for this illness and probably won't be for a very long time. I would not wish CF on my worst enemy, let alone one of my offspring. Your children need to be shown love and affection, I could not look myself in the mirror knowing that I brought a child into this world with this horrible affliction.

But being is I cannot have children the traditional way, I would still opt out of adoption. The decision to care for a child is a colossal defining moment in your life; not a decision to be taken lightly. For 18 years of your life you are gonna be financially responsible for a whole other organism. What I personally believe the crux of this idea boils down to is how strong you feel about your relationship. I think to bring a child into the equation you must first think about the child. As soon as a kid enters the fray it is first and foremost an individual. A child that is in a negative environment is not fulfilling for them. For instance you might have a very mild case of CF, with great PFTS-now, but what about 5 or 6 years down the road. CF can creep up in a moments notice if you neglect your care and treatment regimes. My point is that it's a slippery slope; and one you might not want to venture on if you have an unremitting illness.
 

Solo

New member
I would have to say "no" to the whole reproduction idea. Mostly due to the fact that there is no cure for this illness and probably won't be for a very long time. I would not wish CF on my worst enemy, let alone one of my offspring. Your children need to be shown love and affection, I could not look myself in the mirror knowing that I brought a child into this world with this horrible affliction.
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<br />But being is I cannot have children the traditional way, I would still opt out of adoption. The decision to care for a child is a colossal defining moment in your life; not a decision to be taken lightly. For 18 years of your life you are gonna be financially responsible for a whole other organism. What I personally believe the crux of this idea boils down to is how strong you feel about your relationship. I think to bring a child into the equation you must first think about the child. As soon as a kid enters the fray it is first and foremost an individual. A child that is in a negative environment is not fulfilling for them. For instance you might have a very mild case of CF, with great PFTS-now, but what about 5 or 6 years down the road. CF can creep up in a moments notice if you neglect your care and treatment regimes. My point is that it's a slippery slope; and one you might not want to venture on if you have an unremitting illness.
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