Anyone w/CF not want to have kids?

barbc888

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I really admire anyone with CF who has at least one child. When I was a teenager I decided I did not ever want to be a parent. I have always known that I would not be able to handle raising a child while having CF. You mentioned some very valid points, and I worry about those things as well. Sometimes I feel like CF is my child.
 

barbc888

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I really admire anyone with CF who has at least one child. When I was a teenager I decided I did not ever want to be a parent. I have always known that I would not be able to handle raising a child while having CF. You mentioned some very valid points, and I worry about those things as well. Sometimes I feel like CF is my child.
 

barbc888

New member
I really admire anyone with CF who has at least one child. When I was a teenager I decided I did not ever want to be a parent. I have always known that I would not be able to handle raising a child while having CF. You mentioned some very valid points, and I worry about those things as well. Sometimes I feel like CF is my child.
 

barbc888

New member
I really admire anyone with CF who has at least one child. When I was a teenager I decided I did not ever want to be a parent. I have always known that I would not be able to handle raising a child while having CF. You mentioned some very valid points, and I worry about those things as well. Sometimes I feel like CF is my child.
 

barbc888

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I really admire anyone with CF who has at least one child. When I was a teenager I decided I did not ever want to be a parent. I have always known that I would not be able to handle raising a child while having CF. You mentioned some very valid points, and I worry about those things as well. Sometimes I feel like CF is my child.
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Uli

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I have always been shure that I don´t want kids. With 24 I found a doctor who believed that and "cut my tubes" (sorry, I don´t know the exact words).
I did never change my mind<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif" border="0"> and can still not imagine getting pregnant or raising kids...

Uli,45, Germany
 

Uli

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I have always been shure that I don´t want kids. With 24 I found a doctor who believed that and "cut my tubes" (sorry, I don´t know the exact words).
I did never change my mind<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif" border="0"> and can still not imagine getting pregnant or raising kids...

Uli,45, Germany
 

Uli

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I have always been shure that I don´t want kids. With 24 I found a doctor who believed that and "cut my tubes" (sorry, I don´t know the exact words).
I did never change my mind<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif" border="0"> and can still not imagine getting pregnant or raising kids...

Uli,45, Germany
 

Uli

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I have always been shure that I don´t want kids. With 24 I found a doctor who believed that and "cut my tubes" (sorry, I don´t know the exact words).
I did never change my mind<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif" border="0"> and can still not imagine getting pregnant or raising kids...

Uli,45, Germany
 

Uli

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I have always been shure that I don´t want kids. With 24 I found a doctor who believed that and "cut my tubes" (sorry, I don´t know the exact words).
<br />I did never change my mind<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif" border="0"> and can still not imagine getting pregnant or raising kids...
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<br />Uli,45, Germany
 

Kelli

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I didn't read all the ohter posts, but for me, I will not have kids. Not that I don't love kids or even have urges at times to have a baby. But I know that's just not right for me and I'm only 1/2 of the decision.

My husband is 18 years older than me and has 5 kids. That works out great because I once dated a guy who wanted to marry me and when I asked about the kid issue he blew it off like 'fine whatever.' Well I wasn't sure that one day he wouldn't change his mind, want kids and leave me. So when I met my now husband, he was kind of hesitant to tell me he had so many kids, where I on the other hand, was fine with that. He doesn't want more kids, we can have the kids around if we want (they are all grown) and now we have 2 grandkids. So it's pretty much perfect. All of our needs are met and I can still live the life I life without having a baby needing me.

Plus I really love my lifestyle of doing what I want when I want. I know, self centered, but I am happy this way.

Kids are precious but I know I don't have the energy to take care of any. I do a little happy dance each month when I get my period! <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

KELLI
 

Kelli

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I didn't read all the ohter posts, but for me, I will not have kids. Not that I don't love kids or even have urges at times to have a baby. But I know that's just not right for me and I'm only 1/2 of the decision.

My husband is 18 years older than me and has 5 kids. That works out great because I once dated a guy who wanted to marry me and when I asked about the kid issue he blew it off like 'fine whatever.' Well I wasn't sure that one day he wouldn't change his mind, want kids and leave me. So when I met my now husband, he was kind of hesitant to tell me he had so many kids, where I on the other hand, was fine with that. He doesn't want more kids, we can have the kids around if we want (they are all grown) and now we have 2 grandkids. So it's pretty much perfect. All of our needs are met and I can still live the life I life without having a baby needing me.

Plus I really love my lifestyle of doing what I want when I want. I know, self centered, but I am happy this way.

Kids are precious but I know I don't have the energy to take care of any. I do a little happy dance each month when I get my period! <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

KELLI
 

Kelli

New member
I didn't read all the ohter posts, but for me, I will not have kids. Not that I don't love kids or even have urges at times to have a baby. But I know that's just not right for me and I'm only 1/2 of the decision.

My husband is 18 years older than me and has 5 kids. That works out great because I once dated a guy who wanted to marry me and when I asked about the kid issue he blew it off like 'fine whatever.' Well I wasn't sure that one day he wouldn't change his mind, want kids and leave me. So when I met my now husband, he was kind of hesitant to tell me he had so many kids, where I on the other hand, was fine with that. He doesn't want more kids, we can have the kids around if we want (they are all grown) and now we have 2 grandkids. So it's pretty much perfect. All of our needs are met and I can still live the life I life without having a baby needing me.

Plus I really love my lifestyle of doing what I want when I want. I know, self centered, but I am happy this way.

Kids are precious but I know I don't have the energy to take care of any. I do a little happy dance each month when I get my period! <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

KELLI
 

Kelli

New member
I didn't read all the ohter posts, but for me, I will not have kids. Not that I don't love kids or even have urges at times to have a baby. But I know that's just not right for me and I'm only 1/2 of the decision.

My husband is 18 years older than me and has 5 kids. That works out great because I once dated a guy who wanted to marry me and when I asked about the kid issue he blew it off like 'fine whatever.' Well I wasn't sure that one day he wouldn't change his mind, want kids and leave me. So when I met my now husband, he was kind of hesitant to tell me he had so many kids, where I on the other hand, was fine with that. He doesn't want more kids, we can have the kids around if we want (they are all grown) and now we have 2 grandkids. So it's pretty much perfect. All of our needs are met and I can still live the life I life without having a baby needing me.

Plus I really love my lifestyle of doing what I want when I want. I know, self centered, but I am happy this way.

Kids are precious but I know I don't have the energy to take care of any. I do a little happy dance each month when I get my period! <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

KELLI
 

Kelli

New member
I didn't read all the ohter posts, but for me, I will not have kids. Not that I don't love kids or even have urges at times to have a baby. But I know that's just not right for me and I'm only 1/2 of the decision.
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<br />My husband is 18 years older than me and has 5 kids. That works out great because I once dated a guy who wanted to marry me and when I asked about the kid issue he blew it off like 'fine whatever.' Well I wasn't sure that one day he wouldn't change his mind, want kids and leave me. So when I met my now husband, he was kind of hesitant to tell me he had so many kids, where I on the other hand, was fine with that. He doesn't want more kids, we can have the kids around if we want (they are all grown) and now we have 2 grandkids. So it's pretty much perfect. All of our needs are met and I can still live the life I life without having a baby needing me.
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<br />Plus I really love my lifestyle of doing what I want when I want. I know, self centered, but I am happy this way.
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<br />Kids are precious but I know I don't have the energy to take care of any. I do a little happy dance each month when I get my period! <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
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<br />KELLI
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SaltyAndSweet

New member
SeeEff, I am right there with you. I have the exact same feelings. When I was a little girl I wanted nothing more than to be a mom, but now I know it is way to much for me to handle. It crushes my heart to see all the adorable baby pictures on this site from CF moms. Yes, I am jealous. I have no idea how they can juggle everything, when I can't even find enough time to take care of myself! All of my friends are starting to settle down (I'm the last single one), and soon they will be popping out kids. Now, that is going to be really hard to see.
Top it off, finding a good husband to help carry the weight is proving to be a more impossible challenge.
Not quite sure how to cope with it. I just try to avoid being around kids anymore so I don't have to think about it.
Is there a way to adopt an adult so I can have grandkids? <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> Now that sounds like a good idea!
 

SaltyAndSweet

New member
SeeEff, I am right there with you. I have the exact same feelings. When I was a little girl I wanted nothing more than to be a mom, but now I know it is way to much for me to handle. It crushes my heart to see all the adorable baby pictures on this site from CF moms. Yes, I am jealous. I have no idea how they can juggle everything, when I can't even find enough time to take care of myself! All of my friends are starting to settle down (I'm the last single one), and soon they will be popping out kids. Now, that is going to be really hard to see.
Top it off, finding a good husband to help carry the weight is proving to be a more impossible challenge.
Not quite sure how to cope with it. I just try to avoid being around kids anymore so I don't have to think about it.
Is there a way to adopt an adult so I can have grandkids? <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> Now that sounds like a good idea!
 

SaltyAndSweet

New member
SeeEff, I am right there with you. I have the exact same feelings. When I was a little girl I wanted nothing more than to be a mom, but now I know it is way to much for me to handle. It crushes my heart to see all the adorable baby pictures on this site from CF moms. Yes, I am jealous. I have no idea how they can juggle everything, when I can't even find enough time to take care of myself! All of my friends are starting to settle down (I'm the last single one), and soon they will be popping out kids. Now, that is going to be really hard to see.
Top it off, finding a good husband to help carry the weight is proving to be a more impossible challenge.
Not quite sure how to cope with it. I just try to avoid being around kids anymore so I don't have to think about it.
Is there a way to adopt an adult so I can have grandkids? <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> Now that sounds like a good idea!
 

SaltyAndSweet

New member
SeeEff, I am right there with you. I have the exact same feelings. When I was a little girl I wanted nothing more than to be a mom, but now I know it is way to much for me to handle. It crushes my heart to see all the adorable baby pictures on this site from CF moms. Yes, I am jealous. I have no idea how they can juggle everything, when I can't even find enough time to take care of myself! All of my friends are starting to settle down (I'm the last single one), and soon they will be popping out kids. Now, that is going to be really hard to see.
Top it off, finding a good husband to help carry the weight is proving to be a more impossible challenge.
Not quite sure how to cope with it. I just try to avoid being around kids anymore so I don't have to think about it.
Is there a way to adopt an adult so I can have grandkids? <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> Now that sounds like a good idea!
 

SaltyAndSweet

New member
SeeEff, I am right there with you. I have the exact same feelings. When I was a little girl I wanted nothing more than to be a mom, but now I know it is way to much for me to handle. It crushes my heart to see all the adorable baby pictures on this site from CF moms. Yes, I am jealous. I have no idea how they can juggle everything, when I can't even find enough time to take care of myself! All of my friends are starting to settle down (I'm the last single one), and soon they will be popping out kids. Now, that is going to be really hard to see.
<br />Top it off, finding a good husband to help carry the weight is proving to be a more impossible challenge.
<br />Not quite sure how to cope with it. I just try to avoid being around kids anymore so I don't have to think about it.
<br />Is there a way to adopt an adult so I can have grandkids? <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> Now that sounds like a good idea!
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