Jenny,
I was tx'd 10 years ago and have not heard from my donor family.
It is okay that way. What I am reminded is that they are dealing with a death, while I am dealing with life. Everyone deals with it differently. Everyone who donated has a different experience and also how the death occurred.
I have been told if it was a suicide that many times the family cannot get themselves to write... just too difficult.
Here is another thought. Remember the donor family can no longer see, touch, hear, be with, or hear their loved one laugh..... that is so sad.
Good luck
Joanne