my boyfriend is currently waiting to see if he can even get on the lung tx list again. his bone density is apparently poor, he's lost weight (down to 115# - lost 15 lbs in 6 months), and his lung capacity is at about 25%. he was discharged from the hospital 1 1/2 weeks ago, and now is barely moving. he sits on the couch all day and doesn't attempt to do anything physical, besides walk to the bathroom a couple times a day. he is a bit depressed, in discomfort, and generally weak. i know he needs to get stronger and use his muscles and bones - but there's nothing that i'm saying or doing that's helping him follow through. he does get coughing fits a bit, and that dissuades him from moving because of the recovery time after each of them - but i do not want to see him waste away on a couch. anyone have any advice? he is so important to me.