C.F.er dating another C.F.ers

HAPPINESS

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Hey y'all my name is Elisabeth and i am currnetly in a relationship with another guy who also has C.F. we have been going out for a month and nothing has happened so far but i was just seeking sum advice.i'm 15 and he's 16 we both used to go to the same high school but he just started homeschooling, its really hard on me but we stilll love each other very vety much and we're not gonna let that get in the way of our love so if any u advice or if anyother teens or adults who are dating sum with C.F. too please hit me up my myspace is myspace.com/happiness12
Thanx alot,
Luv Lotz,
Lil' Lisa<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-confused.gif" border="0"><img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0">
 

julie

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I'm married to a man with CF, but I don't have it so I can't offer any personal advice.

I did want to let you know that this topic has been discussed a lot before, Here are some links for you to check out, while you are waiting for some responses on your thread.

<a target=_blank class=ftalternatingbarlinklarge href="http://forums.cysticfibrosis.com/messageview.cfm?catid=4&threadid=6825&highlight_key=y&keyword1=dating">http://forums.cysticfibrosis.c..._key=y&keyword1=dating</a>

<a target=_blank class=ftalternatingbarlinklarge href="http://forums.cysticfibrosis.com/messageview.cfm?catid=4&threadid=3770&highlight_key=y&keyword1=dating">http://forums.cysticfibrosis.c..._key=y&keyword1=dating</a>

There use to be quite a few more, but I can't seem to find them.

The biggest concern you will hear is spreading bugs between eachother that one of you doesn't have. Not necessarily preventable either if you are in a relationship. You are still young, but I am not one to talk or judge on the matter because I met my now husband when I was 16 and he was 19. I knew I loved him then and I knew I wanted to marry him then. People will try to tell you that you are too young. Some people are right and some are wrong, I really feel it depends on the maturity of the individual. How ready are you, how focused about your life are you? Those sorts of things. Are you two ready to committ to eachother? Not get married tomorrow, but are you serious about it and committed to being together in the future.

Those are things both of you should really discuss and think about individually. I for one don't think true love can be dictated by anything... illness, impending death, disability, learning problem. IF you love somebody and are truely IN LOVE with that person, sure you think about it, it's not like it will go away, but it doesn't change your feelings for them.

Best of luck,
 

anonymous

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<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>HAPPINESS</b></i>

Hey y'all my name is Elisabeth and i am currnetly in a relationship with another guy who also has C.F. we have been going out for a month and nothing has happened so far but i was just seeking sum advice.i'm 15 and he's 16 we both used to go to the same high school but he just started homeschooling, its really hard on me but we stilll love each other very vety much and we're not gonna let that get in the way of our love so if any u advice or if anyother teens or adults who are dating sum with C.F. too please hit me up my myspace is myspace.com/happiness12

Thanx alot,

Luv Lotz,

Lil' Lisa<img src=""><img src=""></end quote></div>

I also have Cystic Fibrosis, and dated another person with CF aswell, but my GP told me that us being together was a bad idea due to 'cross infection' and different resistence to medication etc. Have you thought about that?
 

anonymous

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I got to know a woman with cf, married to a man with cf since several years.She told me, they did never culture the same kinds of pseudomonas although besides everything personal they even inhaled in the same room together...

Uli,43,Germany
 
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