CF and adoption

AimeeSue82

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Just out of curiosity, have any of you adopted children? I know they do background checks as well as income and health checks. I'm still a long way off from having kids, but just checking out all the options. I'm pretty sure I don't want to have kids with my genes (I know all the facts about possibilities of passing it on, carriers, non-carriers, etc...). I just want all this crap to stop with me. For those of you that have adopted or tried to, did the CF become an issue at all? If so, what did you do about it?

Thanks,
-Aimee/22/Colorado
 

anonymous

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Hi Aimee,

My husband and I did adopt a little girl from China. China does impose a health examination prior to any adoption. At the time, other than my diabetes, I was given a clean bill of health without knowing that I have CF. The Chinese authorities did not consider my diabetes "a serious medical condition", since I have type II diabetes and can easily manage it with oral medications and infrequent insulin regiments. It was only after our return from China that I started getting ill. Five months later I was diagnosed with CF. Had we waited a little longer, my husband and I would never have been given our little girl. I am so grateful that the signs only started appearing after the adoption.

Most international adoptions do require a health examination. What would have to be looked into is what extent each country follows a strict guideline with respect to an individual's health. I know that our application to China would have been refused had it stated that I have CF.

Dx@35
 

anonymous

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We adopted, and health was not an issue. Tried to adopt again within a year, through private attorney, health was the issue, we were not considered. Get listed early, good luck! Of course, your little one might have health concerns all his own.
 

HollyCatheryn

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I know two parents with CF who adopted - one from China, one from Russia. You can look into CPS, it seems that though they are thorough there are fewer restrictions. China is one of the strictest countries from which to adopt. Much will dpend on your own personal health, rather than a simple label. Get in with a good agency and that will make all the difference. I also know that a certain amount of leniance is available with the financial aspect. You may be able to be approved even if your income isn't quite right, if you have other assets or no debt, etc. Again, a good agency and case-worker makes all the difference. Contact Beth Sufian. She is a lawyer with CF who adopted her daughter. She might have some good suggestions and insights.
 
What do you guys Do about the cost of adoption. I am wanting to adopt but not right now. i am only 21 and i am to young or at least htey will think so and i still live with my parrents. and me my parrents and my hunbands income before take out is good its just after eveyhting. is there a program that helps ppl with the cost or what?


thanks
 

anonymous

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There is a woman named Beth Sufian who has CF and works as a lawyer on behalf of CF patients that adopted a little girl from China about 4 years ago....you can email her through the CF Foundation to get answers on anything dealing with CF. She would be a great person to talk to !!!!<img src="i/expressions/present.gif" border="0"><img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0"><img src="i/expressions/rose.gif" border="0">
 

HollyCatheryn

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Costs vary widely from adoption to adoption depending on agency and whether the adoption is foreign or domestic. Adopting through CPS is free. There may be an approximately $80 lawyer fee for processing the finalization papers with the court. Many CPS kids are also eligible for Medicaid, college scholarships, and assistance for any other special needs they may have. China averages about $20,000 per adoption. Then there are countries and domestic agencies whose costs are anywhere in between. Adopting from Liberia is $5,000 per child and that is one of the cheapest foreign countries from which to adopt.Keep in mind that there is VERY rarely black and white anything. Like I said in my original post, get in with a really good agency and that makes all the difference. Your case worker can help evaluate you on a truly individual basis and it is difficult to get an accurate picture of your eligibility and option by looking at an agencies webpage or googling adoption. Our church has an adoption ministry that helps connect families in all stages of adoption (considering, going through, finalized) with one another for support and information. After talking with families that have gone through the adoption process several times or more, the concensus is that real flesh and blood people are the best possible resource for anyone interested or going through the process. Though all adoptions (like each child adopted) are unique, there are common threads that run through them all. I have a sheet of "scholarship" type resources that I'm happy to email to anyone who is interested. I am working on an adoption section to be added to my website (<A href="http://www.geocities.com/MurrensNatureMama">www.geocities.com/MurrensNatureMama</A>) hopefully by the end of the year. I'll keep you all posted on that.
 

amj

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Dear Amieesue82
I am adopted but I think it wonderfully and I told myself along time ago that I would adopt because there children out that need home no matter what . And if I ever deside to have kids of my own I will have the tested and I will love them if they had cf or some other thing . God will deside if the child is going to be healthy or sick
hope this help you
amj
 

HollyCatheryn

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Here are a few of the links and resources available that I have listed on my sheets - just to get an idea. Again, I'm happy to email a copy of the resource sheets I have to anyone who is interested (<A href="mailto:jaloughlin3@sbcglobal.net">jaloughlin3@sbcglobal.net</A>). Financial Resources<A href="http://www.giftofadoption.org">www.giftofadoption.org</A> - financial assistance in the form of grants<A href="http://www.nmfa.org">www.nmfa.org</A> - reimbursement for adoption by active duty military personnel<A href="http://www.nafadopt.org">www.nafadopt.org</A> - grants and low interest, unsecured loans to adoptive parents<A href="http://www.achildwaits.org">www.achildwaits.org</A> - financial resources for those seeking loans for international adoptions<A href="http://www.abbafund.org">www.abbafund.org</A> - finacial assistance for Christian couples who are called by God to expand their families through adoptionAgencies<A href="http://www.hfsadopt.com/index.html">www.hfsadopt.com/index.html</A> <A href="http://www.worldadoptions.org">www.worldadoptions.org</A> <A href="http://www.dillonadopt.com">www.dillonadopt.com</A> <A href="http://www.lovebasket.org">www.lovebasket.org</A> <A href="http://www.buckneradoption.org">www.buckneradoption.org</A> General Information<A href="http://affordingadoption.com">http://affordingadoption.com</A> <A href="http://www.adoptivefamilies.com/adoptionguide.php">www.adoptivefamilies.com/adoptionguide.php</A> <A href="http://www.familylife.com/hopefororphans/default.asp">www.familylife.com/hopefororphans/default.asp</A> <A href="http://www.ccainstitute.org">www.ccainstitute.org</A>
 
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