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shortcody23

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I am having a bad time in the dating areas and need advice. I have noticed that when i tell people(girls) about my C.F. that they treat me differently and don't want to go out with me and all people, well most anyway. But its very frustrating on my end. i just want to know if any of you have experienced this before. I dont know what to do.HELP PLEASE!.!.!.I almost don't wnat to tell them but then they would be curious as to why im always sick and popping pills.<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-confused.gif" border="0">
Thanks Cody
 
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shortcody23

Guest
I am having a bad time in the dating areas and need advice. I have noticed that when i tell people(girls) about my C.F. that they treat me differently and don't want to go out with me and all people, well most anyway. But its very frustrating on my end. i just want to know if any of you have experienced this before. I dont know what to do.HELP PLEASE!.!.!.I almost don't wnat to tell them but then they would be curious as to why im always sick and popping pills.<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-confused.gif" border="0">
Thanks Cody
 
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shortcody23

Guest
I am having a bad time in the dating areas and need advice. I have noticed that when i tell people(girls) about my C.F. that they treat me differently and don't want to go out with me and all people, well most anyway. But its very frustrating on my end. i just want to know if any of you have experienced this before. I dont know what to do.HELP PLEASE!.!.!.I almost don't wnat to tell them but then they would be curious as to why im always sick and popping pills.<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-confused.gif" border="0">
Thanks Cody
 
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shortcody23

Guest
I am having a bad time in the dating areas and need advice. I have noticed that when i tell people(girls) about my C.F. that they treat me differently and don't want to go out with me and all people, well most anyway. But its very frustrating on my end. i just want to know if any of you have experienced this before. I dont know what to do.HELP PLEASE!.!.!.I almost don't wnat to tell them but then they would be curious as to why im always sick and popping pills.<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-confused.gif" border="0">
Thanks Cody
 
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shortcody23

Guest
I am having a bad time in the dating areas and need advice. I have noticed that when i tell people(girls) about my C.F. that they treat me differently and don't want to go out with me and all people, well most anyway. But its very frustrating on my end. i just want to know if any of you have experienced this before. I dont know what to do.HELP PLEASE!.!.!.I almost don't wnat to tell them but then they would be curious as to why im always sick and popping pills.<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-confused.gif" border="0">
<br />Thanks Cody
 
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seethrough

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Everyone has this same problem, its part of life with CF iv dated plenty and all girl friends have known i have CF, you need to make it known in no possible way will they ever get the diseas from you and just let then know you are healthy and nothing is wrong, that is as long as you are and nothing is wrong.
If they reaylly have such a problem with you having CF and they dont understand this then you dont want to date them.
 
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seethrough

New member
Everyone has this same problem, its part of life with CF iv dated plenty and all girl friends have known i have CF, you need to make it known in no possible way will they ever get the diseas from you and just let then know you are healthy and nothing is wrong, that is as long as you are and nothing is wrong.
If they reaylly have such a problem with you having CF and they dont understand this then you dont want to date them.
 
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seethrough

New member
Everyone has this same problem, its part of life with CF iv dated plenty and all girl friends have known i have CF, you need to make it known in no possible way will they ever get the diseas from you and just let then know you are healthy and nothing is wrong, that is as long as you are and nothing is wrong.
If they reaylly have such a problem with you having CF and they dont understand this then you dont want to date them.
 
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seethrough

New member
Everyone has this same problem, its part of life with CF iv dated plenty and all girl friends have known i have CF, you need to make it known in no possible way will they ever get the diseas from you and just let then know you are healthy and nothing is wrong, that is as long as you are and nothing is wrong.
If they reaylly have such a problem with you having CF and they dont understand this then you dont want to date them.
 
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seethrough

New member
Everyone has this same problem, its part of life with CF iv dated plenty and all girl friends have known i have CF, you need to make it known in no possible way will they ever get the diseas from you and just let then know you are healthy and nothing is wrong, that is as long as you are and nothing is wrong.
<br />If they reaylly have such a problem with you having CF and they dont understand this then you dont want to date them.
 
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mellybean17

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Well, I think it's hard to tell anyone you have CF, let alone someone you want to date. But my last boyfriend completely understood and stood by my side, but my boyfriend now [of over a year and a half] took it a little harder, at first he didn't pay attention to it, but after I was hospitalized a couple times, he got really into it and found out everything about it, and he's been hear to support me ever since. You should tell girls that you date, maybe not right away, but if you even think you are gonna get serious, I think you should, don't wait til the last minute. and if they are shallow enough to not date you because of that, then they most definitely are not worth it, no matter how gorgeous they are. <img src="">
 
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mellybean17

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Well, I think it's hard to tell anyone you have CF, let alone someone you want to date. But my last boyfriend completely understood and stood by my side, but my boyfriend now [of over a year and a half] took it a little harder, at first he didn't pay attention to it, but after I was hospitalized a couple times, he got really into it and found out everything about it, and he's been hear to support me ever since. You should tell girls that you date, maybe not right away, but if you even think you are gonna get serious, I think you should, don't wait til the last minute. and if they are shallow enough to not date you because of that, then they most definitely are not worth it, no matter how gorgeous they are. <img src="">
 
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mellybean17

New member
Well, I think it's hard to tell anyone you have CF, let alone someone you want to date. But my last boyfriend completely understood and stood by my side, but my boyfriend now [of over a year and a half] took it a little harder, at first he didn't pay attention to it, but after I was hospitalized a couple times, he got really into it and found out everything about it, and he's been hear to support me ever since. You should tell girls that you date, maybe not right away, but if you even think you are gonna get serious, I think you should, don't wait til the last minute. and if they are shallow enough to not date you because of that, then they most definitely are not worth it, no matter how gorgeous they are. <img src="">
 
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mellybean17

New member
Well, I think it's hard to tell anyone you have CF, let alone someone you want to date. But my last boyfriend completely understood and stood by my side, but my boyfriend now [of over a year and a half] took it a little harder, at first he didn't pay attention to it, but after I was hospitalized a couple times, he got really into it and found out everything about it, and he's been hear to support me ever since. You should tell girls that you date, maybe not right away, but if you even think you are gonna get serious, I think you should, don't wait til the last minute. and if they are shallow enough to not date you because of that, then they most definitely are not worth it, no matter how gorgeous they are. <img src="">
 
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mellybean17

New member
Well, I think it's hard to tell anyone you have CF, let alone someone you want to date. But my last boyfriend completely understood and stood by my side, but my boyfriend now [of over a year and a half] took it a little harder, at first he didn't pay attention to it, but after I was hospitalized a couple times, he got really into it and found out everything about it, and he's been hear to support me ever since. You should tell girls that you date, maybe not right away, but if you even think you are gonna get serious, I think you should, don't wait til the last minute. and if they are shallow enough to not date you because of that, then they most definitely are not worth it, no matter how gorgeous they are. <img src="">
 
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JenDiS

New member
This is simple.

Dont tell them until its absolutely nessecary. That's what I have done. It gave them time to get to know me and when I ended up in the hospital thats when I told them. They accepted it more.

If you off the bat tell them "Hi i like you, oh i have CF its blah blah blah..." and go into this big thing about it, that will def. turn people away.

Unforutantely, some people hear that and get scared away, just dont tell them.
 
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JenDiS

New member
This is simple.

Dont tell them until its absolutely nessecary. That's what I have done. It gave them time to get to know me and when I ended up in the hospital thats when I told them. They accepted it more.

If you off the bat tell them "Hi i like you, oh i have CF its blah blah blah..." and go into this big thing about it, that will def. turn people away.

Unforutantely, some people hear that and get scared away, just dont tell them.
 
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JenDiS

New member
This is simple.

Dont tell them until its absolutely nessecary. That's what I have done. It gave them time to get to know me and when I ended up in the hospital thats when I told them. They accepted it more.

If you off the bat tell them "Hi i like you, oh i have CF its blah blah blah..." and go into this big thing about it, that will def. turn people away.

Unforutantely, some people hear that and get scared away, just dont tell them.
 
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JenDiS

New member
This is simple.

Dont tell them until its absolutely nessecary. That's what I have done. It gave them time to get to know me and when I ended up in the hospital thats when I told them. They accepted it more.

If you off the bat tell them "Hi i like you, oh i have CF its blah blah blah..." and go into this big thing about it, that will def. turn people away.

Unforutantely, some people hear that and get scared away, just dont tell them.
 
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JenDiS

New member
This is simple.
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<br />Dont tell them until its absolutely nessecary. That's what I have done. It gave them time to get to know me and when I ended up in the hospital thats when I told them. They accepted it more.
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<br />If you off the bat tell them "Hi i like you, oh i have CF its blah blah blah..." and go into this big thing about it, that will def. turn people away.
<br />
<br />Unforutantely, some people hear that and get scared away, just dont tell them.
 
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