Hi All,
To start... a disclaimer... I just got home from vacation at 1am so I'm tired and it's raining outside! So, perhaps I feel a little more blue today than I need too ; )
I am wondering how you cope with CF "getting in the way" of your plans and enjoyment. I am generally an optimist and look on the bright side even when something bad is happening with the kids. I think over the past year I've mastered "getting over it." But the last few days the disappointment is just nagging and making me feel blue. So I'm wondering how you cope with it? Get over it? Don't hit this slump? (
My quick story: We just took our twins on vacation to visit family in Portland. All of the things that I expected to be difficult were great (angels on the plane, played nice the cousins, slept through the night, .etc.) However, on the 5th day of our 10-day vacation (the day we left for the beach) our little guy started vomitting and not pooping... so off to the ER to make sure it wasn't an obstruction like he had in March. Long story short, 4 ER trips and an overnight in the hospital, several IVs, a gazillion medical opinions and now he's feeling better.... and we'r home. It may not have even been CF related - maybe just a bug. So we canceled plans, left the beach, generally stopped the vacation.
I'm so thankful that he's feeling better and that we're home... but now I'm struggling with getting over the vacation that wasn't. I realize rereading this over that it sounds pretty whiny when other people are struggling with life and death issues and I am whining about my vacation being spoiled....I'm starting to think I should just never plan anything than I won't be disappointed!)
Given that - I'd still like to hear your advice about coping with setbacks.
Stacy
To start... a disclaimer... I just got home from vacation at 1am so I'm tired and it's raining outside! So, perhaps I feel a little more blue today than I need too ; )
I am wondering how you cope with CF "getting in the way" of your plans and enjoyment. I am generally an optimist and look on the bright side even when something bad is happening with the kids. I think over the past year I've mastered "getting over it." But the last few days the disappointment is just nagging and making me feel blue. So I'm wondering how you cope with it? Get over it? Don't hit this slump? (
My quick story: We just took our twins on vacation to visit family in Portland. All of the things that I expected to be difficult were great (angels on the plane, played nice the cousins, slept through the night, .etc.) However, on the 5th day of our 10-day vacation (the day we left for the beach) our little guy started vomitting and not pooping... so off to the ER to make sure it wasn't an obstruction like he had in March. Long story short, 4 ER trips and an overnight in the hospital, several IVs, a gazillion medical opinions and now he's feeling better.... and we'r home. It may not have even been CF related - maybe just a bug. So we canceled plans, left the beach, generally stopped the vacation.
I'm so thankful that he's feeling better and that we're home... but now I'm struggling with getting over the vacation that wasn't. I realize rereading this over that it sounds pretty whiny when other people are struggling with life and death issues and I am whining about my vacation being spoiled....I'm starting to think I should just never plan anything than I won't be disappointed!)
Given that - I'd still like to hear your advice about coping with setbacks.
Stacy