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arabeth
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I am having a problem with my 9 year old daughter and wondered if anyone had any advice. She and her little sister (5) both have CF but other than that they do not know anyone else with it. I am beginning to see resentment in my older daughter and it's scaring me. I want to try to help her before it gets worse. I know she hates doing treatments but she pretty much does them without complaining anymore. She takes her enzymes without question and basically does everything I ask her to do...however, I have been noticing that she gets uncomfortable lately when I mention CF around other people. For instance, the other day she was getting her hair cut (she has a terrible time with her hair being unhealthy) and I told the stylist that she is on several medications and wondered if that had anything to do with it. Of course the stylist wanted to know why she is on meds and when I told her I got the look of death from my daughter. And the other night I was in her room talking to her and she told me she wants to lose weight...I darn near flipped! She is very healthy, a little short for her age but always in the 50%-75% for her weight...so quite good for CF...(my other daughter is skin and bones)...so anyway, I told her she did not need to lose weight and that she is perfect the way she is...she turned to me and said, "How can I be perfect when I have Cystic Fibrosis"...tears started flowing down both our faces and I didn't know what to say. I talked to her the best I could but I know I really can't relate to what she is feeling. I am really scared that this will only get worse as she gets older and I don't know how to help her. Any advice from people who have been there? Thanks very much for any help you can offer....
Worried Mom
Worried Mom