Ever feel like the world is against you?

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thefrogprincess

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My wonderful boyfriend Brian found out today that he has a 4 inch mass above his left kidney. THis coming on the tail of my friend passing away from cancer means I am not handling this news very well at all! I'm trying to be optimistic, we don't know what it is yet, it could be only a cyst.....or it could be cancer. I'm going crazy.
 
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thefrogprincess

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My wonderful boyfriend Brian found out today that he has a 4 inch mass above his left kidney. THis coming on the tail of my friend passing away from cancer means I am not handling this news very well at all! I'm trying to be optimistic, we don't know what it is yet, it could be only a cyst.....or it could be cancer. I'm going crazy.
 
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Faust

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Sorry to hear about your boyfriend. My long term friend found out he is in stage 2 of a real gnarly skin cancer, and has to do chemo. He probably won't make it to be honest. I sometimes wish I could be god for a while and kill off all the truely s*itty people out there and grab their remaining heartbeats and give them to those who are truely worthy. I would have to kill MANY people. I'd say maybe 70% of people are "good people", but the other 30% really screw things up to make it seem that there are way more bipedal fecal organisms masquerading around as people.
 
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Faust

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Sorry to hear about your boyfriend. My long term friend found out he is in stage 2 of a real gnarly skin cancer, and has to do chemo. He probably won't make it to be honest. I sometimes wish I could be god for a while and kill off all the truely s*itty people out there and grab their remaining heartbeats and give them to those who are truely worthy. I would have to kill MANY people. I'd say maybe 70% of people are "good people", but the other 30% really screw things up to make it seem that there are way more bipedal fecal organisms masquerading around as people.
 
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eli

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sorry to hear the news. Don't work yourself up over it because your yet to find out if its cancerous.
You also need to be strong for your boyfriend, as he will need your suport.
Take care and best of luck.

Keep you in my prayers
Eli<img src="i/expressions/angel.gif" border="0">
 
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eli

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sorry to hear the news. Don't work yourself up over it because your yet to find out if its cancerous.
You also need to be strong for your boyfriend, as he will need your suport.
Take care and best of luck.

Keep you in my prayers
Eli<img src="i/expressions/angel.gif" border="0">
 
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JennifersHope

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Gosh, I am sorry that you are going through this, Even though you know that you don't KNOW what it is, and it could be more than likely a cyst, just the fact of what you have been through with your friend passing away and now this is enough trauma... because how can you not think of what just happen.... It is really hard to seperate the two situations but they are not the same.....

I am sorry, just for the amount of stress and sadness you are going through. I will pray for you both today, please let us know how things go. I assume they will do a biopsy or further screening.

I wish I could give you a big hug and make you a cup of tea,

Jennifer
 
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JennifersHope

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Gosh, I am sorry that you are going through this, Even though you know that you don't KNOW what it is, and it could be more than likely a cyst, just the fact of what you have been through with your friend passing away and now this is enough trauma... because how can you not think of what just happen.... It is really hard to seperate the two situations but they are not the same.....

I am sorry, just for the amount of stress and sadness you are going through. I will pray for you both today, please let us know how things go. I assume they will do a biopsy or further screening.

I wish I could give you a big hug and make you a cup of tea,

Jennifer
 
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JazzysMom

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I am sorry to hear of your hard times. I know this is easier said then done, but dont get worked up until you can confirm what the mass is. If it is something serious, take one day at a time & appreciate the good parts of those days.......Keep us udated, please!
 
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JazzysMom

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I am sorry to hear of your hard times. I know this is easier said then done, but dont get worked up until you can confirm what the mass is. If it is something serious, take one day at a time & appreciate the good parts of those days.......Keep us udated, please!
 
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Diane

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I'm so sorry to hear all this....You've been going thru such a rough time lately. I guess i can do is offer you my prayers, and like everyone else said, try not to go too crazy till you know what the mass actually is. I know this is so hard for you especially after all you have already been thru, but added stress wont help. No matter what happens, you know you can count on us to be behind you, even if it is only here online , it has to mean something. I'm praying for you<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
 
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Diane

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I'm so sorry to hear all this....You've been going thru such a rough time lately. I guess i can do is offer you my prayers, and like everyone else said, try not to go too crazy till you know what the mass actually is. I know this is so hard for you especially after all you have already been thru, but added stress wont help. No matter what happens, you know you can count on us to be behind you, even if it is only here online , it has to mean something. I'm praying for you<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
 
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thefrogprincess

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Thanks everyone. Its just hard not to think about what happened with my friend because it started with similar pain to what Brian has. I'm trying to hold it together for his sake. He has no family in the area so I'm almost his entire support system. He is waiting on a urologist to call him back for an appointment. No matter what I'm sure he'll need surgery because he is in quite a bit of pain and its getting worse, he complains about it more and more.
 
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thefrogprincess

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Thanks everyone. Its just hard not to think about what happened with my friend because it started with similar pain to what Brian has. I'm trying to hold it together for his sake. He has no family in the area so I'm almost his entire support system. He is waiting on a urologist to call him back for an appointment. No matter what I'm sure he'll need surgery because he is in quite a bit of pain and its getting worse, he complains about it more and more.
 
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