Feeling fortunate today

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tiregrl19

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So we all know that CF sucks on its best day, BUT... Here is what I
have gotten from it that is good.<br>
1. I have an awesome job... I work for my dad but two years ago
when I had just turned 18 he gave me a business to run and form
myself, I was only mature enough to do that because of CF.<br>
2. Although there are times when I am sick and can't go out with my
friends, the times that I finally do get to go I have a blast.
Being deprived of some things makes you happy to have them.<br>
3. My family is really strong.<br>
4. I cherish my friends, family and all around me---<br>
5. Most times when I am not having a pitty party- I feel so
fortunate because even though we have a sh*&#y disease I was
born at a time when there is actually help for it, 10-20 years
earlier and I think I would have a problem. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif" border="0"><br>
6. Okay and the hugest thing for me, there are so many other people
who are way sicker than I am--- I could have cancer and be told I
only have 2 weeks left and there is nothing I could do. Instead I
was told I have CF and if I do machines and take medicines I will
live atleast for another 10-20 years. Damn it I have it
good!!!!<br>
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I hope everyone feels a little fortunate today because you are
here, even if you are having a little trouble taking a deep breath.
<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0"> I would be interested to hear if anyone else might feel
fortunate and if so what do you feel forunate for? Please respond I
think this would be interesting to hear!!!!
 
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anonymous

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Hi Stephanie

I love what you had to say and I am fortunate to have lived as long as I have with two transplants. Going through the first was a walk in the park and the second tx was much more difficult but it was worth every day that I was in recovery. I can do whatever I like and now live a normal life.

Risa
 
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Jane

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Nicely said Stephanie! A positive attitude is everything!

Every time we go to our check-ups we feel blessed. At a Children's Hospital you see all kinds of disabilities. Ok, my boys have CF, but they LOOK healthy, they don't have neurological problems, they don't have cancer, they don't need a wheelchair or other medical apparatus, they lived into double digits, they play sports, they have friends, they go to school, they can see me, ... Its a long list of things we are greatful for.

Thanks for letting me take a minute to smile!
 
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JazzysMom

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Its funny that you would address this. The last week has been rough for me physically & a few days emotionally. Yet while all that was going on I had the part that was grateful. Grateful that I could go to my pals here or my hubby & daughter for that hug when I chose. Grateful to have an understanding & knowledgable doctor who I can call anytime. Grateul that even at my worst, I KNOW there is someone else worse off. Much of it is a state of mind. Sometimes its easier to obtain some days then others tho! Thanks for sharing!
 
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JustDucky

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Stephanie, thank you for that post...I needed it today. I usually am optimistic, it even amazes my doctors that I cope as well as I do with all of the problems I have besides the CF (rare form of muscular dystrophy as well, requires a vent in my case..but at least I can breathe!) I have been ill for a bit now, on IV's almost 5 weeks and counting, so I am cranky...no pity party, just cranky. Yeah, I could definitely have it worse, that's for sure...like you said have a very bad case of cancer and be told that I have months to live. My feeling is how can someone even come to terms with that diagnosis in such a short period of time? Right now, I do have my life, it is precious to me and I try to make each day count in some way, after all, I have my kids, my mom and a terrific family in my corner. They are my cheerleaders if you wish, along with my new found friends on this site and other cyber friends I have gotten to know over the years. I don't know how long I will grace this earth, no one knows but I wil tell you one thing, I will not give up my fight and I appreciate the time that I am here. So....here's a hug for you and keep that spirit up! Jenn <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
 
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Seana30

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Steph,

WHAT A GREAT POST!!

I am thankful for my parents who adopted my sister and I. I can't imagine what our lifes would be like today had they not taken us in!

I am thankful for my husband who makes me happy AND angry on a daily basis!

I am thankful for my children who are turning into beautiful, strong, smart young adults!

I am thankful to the doctor who made it possible for us to keep out cats, Mudflap and Claire because I recently found out I am VERY allergic to cats, and our kittys are a big part of our family! I am also thankful to the people who make Singulair and Nasonex......lol.

THANKS FOR THE UPLIFING POST!!!

Seana
 
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thelizardqueen

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That was a great post. I was thinking myself last night that I am fortunate to not have it any worse then what I do already. I may get down about my CF once and awhile, but I realize that there are people far worse out there then me.
 
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skh

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Stephanie, thank you so much for this post. You are right, we have so much to be thankful for. My daughter has cf but we have hope for her future. There are so many that do not have that. I am just sitting here smiling at how wonderful life really is. Thank you for this "reality check".

Sue
 
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lovingBenandCambree

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I am grateful to have found the love of my life at such a young age and to be able to bring a beautiful daughter into the world. I am grateful that my CF has taught me diligence, patience, and above all has strengthened my relationship with my Heavenly Father. I feel that yes I had to grow up at a young age but it has helped me many times in my life to be level headed and responsible. Thanks for sharing.

Emilee
 
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Scarlett81

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Ok, this will seem out of character for even me. I know I'm having a lousy day, and down. and yes-there are definate positives that I see from having my Cf.
But its funny-b/c just yesterday I was thinking about all the people that comment on how mature I am, how together my life is, (ha), and so on. And I thought-wow, yeah, that is good, but I'd give ANYTHING to be a shallow, immature, self absorbed ignorant 23 yr old-instead of having my CF.
Obviously it's my CF that has made me who I am, and I'm proud of who I am. I 'm defiantely more mature and stable and responsible bc/ of it. but, come on, I can dream can't I???
 
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anonymous

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<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>Seana30</b></i>





I am thankful for my husband who makes me happy AND angry on a daily basis!



Seana, I loved that line!<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
 
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littlemisssilly

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Hi all,<br>
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Stephanie, what a wonderful post! As I started to get older I
realised more and more that although I wouldn't wish an illness
like CF on anyone, it has made me who I am today. It has made me
cherish and appreciate things in life that I may have overlooked
had I been born without a care in the world, like family, friends,
tolerance and a deeper understanding of myself and the ability to
be blessed with truly remarkable friendships.  <br>
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You're a star! ... in fact, we all are!! <img src="i/expressions/wine.gif" border="0"> <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
 
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Seana30

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lol jane.....it's true!

but I wouldn't want it any other way! He can have me laughing my butt off one minute, and so angry with him the next.....but that is what I love about him..............HE MAKES LIFE INTERESTING!

Seana
 
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tiregrl19

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Kylie, I am actually a pretty healthy CFer. My FEV1 was mid to high
80's until I was 17 and now it is 60 as of last doctor visit. I
went into the hospital in December for a 2 week tune up and it was
40. I am trying my hardest to try and get it up high enough to
start dancing again, then I know I will feel tons better. So
although I am doing good for a 20 year CF patient I am by no means
the shining star of CFers. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
 
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littlemisssilly

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Oh Stephanie, numbers only make up part of the story, it's your
attitude that makes you a star <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
 
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