It has absolutely nothing to do with being sick trust me. My heart wasn't won by voluminous lung capacity. One of the things I remember most was when I was dating his roommate. I got sick with the flu that winter, and Jeff was too busy to come see me. Ry came over with chicken noodle soup and hot chocolate with schnapps in it. He put me before himself even though we weren't even dating. Humor, also, he had one of the best senses of humor I'd known. He was uniquely sweet and kind and loving and he loved me for me. Not because he thought I was hot, or anything, but because I was Allie and he thought we were meant to be together. YOu can get a girl that same way as anyone else. By winning her mind and heart.