My three-year old is in the 25% for weight and 60% for height. My 17 month old (both have cf) is in the 75% for weight and 95% for height. I learned a lot from my daughter's eating problems. She is finally at the 25% where they want her. She had a feeding tube as a baby due to a food refusal related to a milk allergy. As a result, she has gone through a lot of food problems. I still have to feed her almost every bite, but at least she is eating as much as I want her to in the past few months, even if it takes forever! I knew when my son was born (with cf), I was going to leave the feeding completely up to him. If he was done before I thought he should be, fine with me, meal is over. If he decides he doesn't want a bite of dinner and hasn't had anything to eat since lunch. Fine, he will eat tomorrow. I also wasn't going to feed him once he got past baby food. It was up to him to put the food in his own mouth. Thankfully, it has worked out.
Sharon