How do i deal with bullies at school that make fun of me for haven cf

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clystalsurman

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hello my name is clystal ramirez and im sick and tired of the jerks at school because im the type of person that is proude to have cf so i tell thae first perso i see and then they say ewwww dnt touch me freak and now i just want to kill myself can saome one <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="font-family: impact,chicago; font-size: large;">PLEASEEEEEEE!!!!!!<span style="font-size: large;"></strong><span style="font-size: large;"> HELP ME
 
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andrdyb

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clystal...

I hope you've got some good support there where you are (parents, friends, school counselor?) since there is so little we can do from afar <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif" border="0"> That's just terrible what you're going through - it boggles my mind that people could be that cruel!!

I encourage you to find someone at school that you can talk to about this. It's hard to *make* people be nice but just having someone you can talk to there can help you feel like there is hope. That's important because you don't want to feel like you're feeling now - day after day. Also, see if you can make friends outside of school who can be supportive. Eventually, you'll connect with good people at school but that doesn't help you right now. If you can reach out to people in your neighborhood or at any activities you participate in (church, sports, summer camp?) you can at least have the support we all need. If possible, it would be good to make your parent/s aware of this - just having him/her in your corner feels good and maybe some decisions about school might have to be made if things stay bad. If they have no clue what's going on, then they can't do anything about it. When it gets to the point that you want to kill yourself, then people who are there with you need to know what's going on!

Hope that you can connect with at least one person in your area. I'm never really on this board - just saw your post on Facebook and had to respond so I may not see any other replies. I'll be praying that you come to see how valuable you really are and how much these idiots are missing out on by being so mean!
 
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clystalsurman

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thnx but i live in the middle of no where i have to go 45min. just 2 get to my neiber but thnx 4 the advise . my mom is a truck driver and my dad died wen i was 2 but i love sharks (^^^)
 
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clystalsurman

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thnx but i live in the middle of no where i have to go 45min. just 2 get to my neiber but thnx 4 the advise . my mom is a truck driver and my dad died wen i was 2 but i love sharks (^^^)
 
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clystalsurman

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thnx but i live in the middle of no where i have to go 45min. just 2 get to my neiber but thnx 4 the advise . my mom is a truck driver and my dad died wen i was 2 but i love sharks (^^^)
 
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JennyCoulon

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I am sorry that you are going through this. Kids and people in general can be cruel. I would definately talk to the counselor and realize you are who you are and be proud of that. I know where we live the school has zero tolerence for bullying. There is so much more life to live after you graduate from high school. These people will get "theirs" in due time. Carma will come back around. Please go talk to someone who can help make this stop.
 
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Lena Bean

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When I was in school kids treated me that way and it was awful, I never seeked help or tried to do anything about it. If I were you I would go to my guidance counselor. Good luck! If you ever want to talk or vent about any of it though, I'm here, just message me! And if you have a cell phone, we can exchange numbers and you can text me about it! =]
 
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MLewisHampton

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Please approach a School Counselor or Assistant Prinicipal immediately! Bullying is absolutely unacceptable and against the law! They will help you to resolve this right away. Don't wait! MLH
 
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JennyCoulon

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I am just looking for an update on this situation. I hope you have found help and this has stopped. Please provide us with an update. Thanks
 
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isabella Mendoza

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Hey CLystal! Have your dad take a day off work, have him go to school with you, and have the bullies called out of class and talked to by your dad, you and a friendly teacher. My son was bullied when he was 9 or 10, I went to school, (his classroom was a portable), pulled the kids out of the portable, and asked him to their faces, "How could you do that"? They were super ashamed, and it stopped. I'm not saying that all mean kids are that easy to stop, but once it isn't under the radar, its harder for the nice kids to let it go on. good luck! XXOO isabella
 
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albino15

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If people react badly when you tell them you have CF, then stop telling people. It was rare that I actually volunteered that information for no good reason and I only mentioned it if somehow the subject came up otherwise I just said I had "lung problems" or let people believe I had asthma (which I do, however mild it may be). My advice is to ignore the jerks and find a couple good friends to stick with. If it gets really bad then go through the proper channels (tell the teacher, guidance counselor, your parent) Also don't be afraid to defend yourself, a lot of times the people who are suppose to be running these schools don't give a crap about the students, are completely incompetent or both.
 
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Amanda1992

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i agree!! im not ashamed of my CF its a part of me and if people hate on it then to bad for them they're the ones missing out!! you'll make it through school just hang in there :)
 
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