Ok Ok everyone, all I was trying to say is that obviously this person is a newer poster to this site, evidenced by the questions in the post. There is NOTHING wrong with the question that was asked, I remember when I found out my husband, then BF had CF and I had no freaking idea what the heck it was or who I could ask my million questions to. Luckily, my husbands family was very open with me on the matter and answered any questions I had. Once he and I progressed into the relationship, I felt more comfortable asking him questions so I did.
This person came here for our support, and we should support them by honestly answering the question and giving them some guidance. There is nothing wrong with being silly, and thinking something is cute but in life timing is everything and this was not the right time for that. Hopefully this person isn't too embarassed by the comments after his post, to ever come back again. Is that the purpose of us being here? no, I don't think it is. Some things on this board are funny and deserve a good laugh and some more silly comments added to the post, but not this one.
To the initial poster, if you ever have more questions or want to talk with someone who has been where you are now please feel free to email me at division902@hotmail.com
Julie (wife to Mark 24 w/CF)