How many women.....

princessjdc

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How many women

Ok, Im 24 going on 25 and one day I would like to have children and I was wondering how many of you women w/cf have had a child and what was it like and also would you have any advice?
 

JazzysMom

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I have a beautiful 7 year old daughter. I had a fantastic pregnancy. I felt great, looked good & did all this working fulltime. I did end up having a c-section 4 weeks early as a precaution due to my history of hemoptysis. She was 5 lbs 2.5 ozs & 20 inches long at birth. She has made up for her small size since she is already up to my chin & I am 5'3". The pregnancy was the easy part. Once the baby is born is when it gets a little rough. I didnt always take naps when she did, but did well until she got sick. She had bronchitis & was running a very high fever for a few days. The only thing that would comfort her day & night is laying on my chest while I rocked in the rocking chair. My husband tried to do it, but she wanted Mom. Times like that are when I was totally sleep deprived & what took its toll on my health, but overall I did ok. I will say that the better you take care of yourself now & during any pregnancy the better you are in the long run. Prior to my pregnancy I was very lacks in maintaining my health. I learned the hard way. Its not recommended for all CF women to have kids. Out of my CF clinic there were a few whose health was really bad, but because of their religion they chose to have children anyway. A few of those women have passed away. Some are still kicking!
 

julie

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http://www.geocities.com/murrensnaturemama/index.html
Check out this website. It was created by a woman with CF and there are stories from other women who have CF wh have had successful pregnancies.

Jazzy's mom, I know Hollycatheryn (creator of above site) is always looking for more success stories if you are interested in sharing yours.....


Good luck to you initial poster,
 

julie

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<a target=new class=ftalternatingbarlinklarge href="http://www.geocities.com/murrensnaturemama/index.html">http://www.geocities.com/murrensnaturemama/index.html</a>

Try this directly
 

princessjdc

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Thanks for your replys and I went to the site. From browsing through it, it looks like it will be very helpful. I have another question. Did your health decline, stay the same, or get better during and after pregnancy, besides not getting enough rest after pregnancy. I also know that it is different with every person w/cf but it is always nice to know what to expect.
 

JazzysMom

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My health during my pregnancy was very good. My PFT stayed in my normal range. Now I am not 100% sure why. I might have taken better care of myself or pregnancy just agreed with me. I didnt do treatments any different, but I did eat better. My health afterwards was fine except for the lack of rest that I was use to getting. I did have a slight problem disciplining myself to let things go & rest while my daughter did. I believe it was normal CF progression & age plus neglect of my health over the years that led to my slight decline in health. I say that it was the care of my daughter, but that isnt exactly true. I wouldnt give up the nights that my daughter & I just rocked in the pitch black except the moonlite shining while everyone was asleep. Its times like that, that made the rest easy to handle.
 

anonymous

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Jazzys mom, so you were 30 years old when you had your daugther? That helps to know that, because I might be 30 when I have one ( I hope not though) and I liked hearing that you did good with your pregnancy and not have any problems. I've always been told that it is best to have a baby when your young, because that is when your the healthiest and there would be less to no problems. It also goes to show that if your still in good health at an older age than there will be a good chance of having no problems either. I have pretty good health now, so I think that if Im 30 when I decide to have a baby then I should be in good shape, assuming my health is still the way it is today. How old were all you other mothers when you had your first baby and did you have more than one child?
 
I hate to be the only one that bears bad news in regards to pregnancy. It is a very long and detailed story so I won't bore you with the details. I was doing really well with my pregnancy up until about the 6 month mark. Then things started to take their toll. The worst of it being that due to the baby kicking and my coughing so hard I had ligaments torn on my ribs which made it very difficult to breath and to do the necessary treatments. I went in the hospital at 32 weeks in which other complications occurred. I began needing significant amounts of oxygen. I feel that this is due to the fact that my lungs were just filling up with infection because I was not using them properly. then I began having hemoptysis. It got pretty scary but miraculously we both pulled through and I have a beautiful baby girl. I wouldn't change any of it and I would do the same thing over again if needs be. It was a long road back and I am still fighting to get my PFTs to there normal level. At this time my PFTS are doing quite well considering the drop that they took while pregnant. My Drs are very uncertain as to why I had so many complications. They had told me that the research shows that pregnancy does not have an effect on your CF. I am still considering whether we will have any more children. It is a tough decision and we are considering adoption. Please let me know if you have any further questions. I am so very happy that I made the decision to have a baby. She has brought me so much love and joy that I never could have imagined.

Emilee with 2 E's
 

HollyCatheryn

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I am the creator of the aforementioned website. Thanks Julie and Melissa for the references. What Eileen, Melissa and Emilee all said can be true. What has been discovered in research is that the current trend of your health is unaffected by a pregnancy if your disease is in the "mild" or "moderate" categories. If your health directly before pregnancy is steady and on a plateau, you will be at a similar level of health postpartum. Likewise, if your pre-pregnancy health is in a decline, your level of health will be lower after pregnancy than before. The same follows for an increase in health. You will find details and links to the research on this information on the Pregnancy and Specific Concerns of Pregnancy pages. I have been fortunate that my health has actually improved since becoming pregnant and giving birth - even with the daily demands of raising a now-three-year-old and working part-time. My weight is up from prepregnancy. I have fewer hospitalizations and have had no kidney infections or kidney stones since my daughters birth. I also have fewer sinus infections and haven't required a sinus surgery in over two-years, a first for me. There is MUCH value in assessing your current health. Not just in looking at your lung function, though this is an important aspect of it, but evaluating your nutritional status, your weight, and the frequency of infections and tune-ups. It is also helpful to look at how you address illnesses. There are some medications that are less safe or unsafe during pregnancy and/or breastfeeding, so it is helpful to begin looking at alternatives. I have found it important in my own life not just to look at my blood-vitamin or -mineral levels, but in how I acquire those nutrients. It is possible to actually use up nutrients in order to acquire others based on the form and foods from which they come. For example, if you eat difficult to digest foods with lots of extra processing-type stuff included (like in canned and boxed foods), you may need to eat quite a few more calories a day because of how many calories your body burns to break down and assimilate the foods you are eating. If you alter your diet tp include easier to digest, purer foods, you may find that you require fewer calories because your body doesn't work so hard to use what you've eaten. This has proved true for me. I eat about 3/4 of what I ate prepregnancy, but my weight is up and has remained steady for the last 3 years. Having CF, it is easy to feel out of control of your body, and sometimes that is absolutely the case. But, because pregnancy is a healthy, natural phase in a woman's life, it is very different from what we are used to dealing with. It quite often (though, as Emilee points out, there are exceptions) goes very well. I have a friend with CF who gave birth to twins 20 years ago when she was about 30. Her doctor was ecstatic about her pregnancy and told her that he wished she could stay pregnant all the time because of how it benefitted her health! She successfully breastfed both babies for a few months as well!We've lost touch with her in the last couple of years, but Melissa and I knew a woman with CF who visited this site who had experienced two pregnancies. Both were IVF, I believe. But, the first pregnancy resulted in a single baby and the second was triplets!I think another important thing to evaluate is your clinic. There are pros and cons of both a clinic with experience with CF women having babies and a clinic without experience. In my previous clinic, where I was seen during my pregnancy, I was the first. It was tough because they didn't have much information to offer me and much of it was out-dated - they'd never had a reason to keep up on the subject, but it was flexible in that because there were no previous experiences, there were few preconceived ideas about how to handle it. I had a lot of freedom to dictate my care or at least lead. In my current clinic there are numerous parents with CF (quite a few women and some men). The combination of their previous experiences and this doctor's method/personality mean less personal freedom in my care should I get pregnant here. But, it also means that they are more up-to-date on research and are more knowledgeable than my previous one. You MUST be educated. You know your body better than anyone. You know when something doesn't feel right or when something feels normal. You are your and your baby's best advocate. But, you cannot advocate for the very best care and options available if you do not know what the research says and what choices you have. In my opinion, you must be an equal with your doctor and anyone else on your CF team. You have information and knowledge about your body on a daily basis that they do not. They have professional experience and training and technology that you do not. You must work together so that you can get the best care. No doctor has the time to spend investigating one patient's individual case and needs the way the patient does. Do not be afraid to hunt down information, copy things off, take papers to clinic and ask questions. You also at any time have the right to suggest certain treatments or refuse them. Becoming an expert in your own care has MANY benefits for your health that will then benefit your baby (while the baby is in your body and then as you are mothering in the following years). As you learn to advocate for yourself, you learn how to advocate for your child. As a mother, you will use that often! Feel free to email me from here or MurrensNatureMama if you have any specific question that I can help you with.
 
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