Shelby Delacruz
New member
Hi, my name is Shelby, my husband's name is Brandon. He has CF, the mutation F508del and P. aerugonisa, which knocked him off of Keck Hospital's transplant list earlier this year. In mid-july we were told he has 6 months to a year left to live, and then yesterday the docs came in and said "time is running out". He's been in the hospital for over a month now, some days hes good, most days he's bad. He's almost always short of breath, when he stands or moves much, it becomes severe. He's been coughing up blood a lot more than usual. They had him on heparin and then they took him off, he almost filled a cup with pure blood, but hasn't had any since then, until today there was a small amount.
We've both been stressed due to family issues, and I think it's really taking a toll on his health. He was doing great before some of these family issues popped up, and now it's like a rapid decline. He's getting benadryl and morphine every 4 hours, along with ativan for anxiety due to being on the bi-pap. They lowered his treatments from every 4 hours to every 6 hours even though we feel like they should be increased, not decreased...his doctors act like they're doing all they can but I feel that they aren't. I've been on this forum for less than an hour reading and I see so many different things for people with his mutation that help them, that hasn't even been told to him.
He hates being on the bi-pap but his Co2 levels are rising up to the 70's because he's just not able to get enough of that Co2 out with his breathing. His constant morphine is also a huge factor in it, but the doctors aren't making any point to stop him from receiving so much, or offering an alternative pain medicine for the soreness from his new port. It's so frustrating to sit here and be in this research hospital thinking they're are better doctors and hospitals that could make him better but they're out of our reach!
Another thing I want to know is if we should even be at this hospital.. it is a research hospital, and there are grad students always wanting to come in and observe him, touch his port, give him IV's and things that they don't really know how to do yet. We had a nurse in training or whatever do a blood gas on my husband...and it took everything I had not to start causing a scene because this trainee had no idea what he was doing! He couldn't find the arterial vein, and just kept digging around in my husband's arm, CLEARLY hurting him until my husband finally said to just stop and don't touch him again.
I just really need some suggestions on what can be done to preserve his health, better his health, keep him alive for as long as we can...what hospitals in CA are best for CF, and how to find decent housing for disabled young adults (he's in a wheelchair)?
We've both been stressed due to family issues, and I think it's really taking a toll on his health. He was doing great before some of these family issues popped up, and now it's like a rapid decline. He's getting benadryl and morphine every 4 hours, along with ativan for anxiety due to being on the bi-pap. They lowered his treatments from every 4 hours to every 6 hours even though we feel like they should be increased, not decreased...his doctors act like they're doing all they can but I feel that they aren't. I've been on this forum for less than an hour reading and I see so many different things for people with his mutation that help them, that hasn't even been told to him.
He hates being on the bi-pap but his Co2 levels are rising up to the 70's because he's just not able to get enough of that Co2 out with his breathing. His constant morphine is also a huge factor in it, but the doctors aren't making any point to stop him from receiving so much, or offering an alternative pain medicine for the soreness from his new port. It's so frustrating to sit here and be in this research hospital thinking they're are better doctors and hospitals that could make him better but they're out of our reach!
Another thing I want to know is if we should even be at this hospital.. it is a research hospital, and there are grad students always wanting to come in and observe him, touch his port, give him IV's and things that they don't really know how to do yet. We had a nurse in training or whatever do a blood gas on my husband...and it took everything I had not to start causing a scene because this trainee had no idea what he was doing! He couldn't find the arterial vein, and just kept digging around in my husband's arm, CLEARLY hurting him until my husband finally said to just stop and don't touch him again.
I just really need some suggestions on what can be done to preserve his health, better his health, keep him alive for as long as we can...what hospitals in CA are best for CF, and how to find decent housing for disabled young adults (he's in a wheelchair)?