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semperfiohana

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so i'm happy and excited to become an aunt. this is my sister's second kid. i had told her before i wanted to name my kid hailee elizabeth, well she named her first kayley elizabeth. she just had her second tonight and name her cailtlyn grace. i had told her after she named kayley that i would change my girl name to hailee grace. i'm so upset at her and she's thinks it's funny. i'm upset with her and i don't know what to do. when i got off the phone with her i started crying and i know my husband felt bad cause he asked me if i was upset and i had my back to him and he came over to me and saw that i was crying and he rubbed on my back for a min. is it wrong of me to be a little mad? i've come to the conclusion i'm not telling any more names to my family. i just don't know what to do cause i know that my family will call tomorrow and be really excited and i'm excited, but upset too. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif" border="0"> this should be a happy time. when i talked to my sister i asked her if she really used grace and she said yes and she told me not to worry about it cause i'm having a boy. made me a little more upset...ok i've made my self all teary eyed again so i think i'm done. thanks for listening guys!
 
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semperfiohana

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so i'm happy and excited to become an aunt. this is my sister's second kid. i had told her before i wanted to name my kid hailee elizabeth, well she named her first kayley elizabeth. she just had her second tonight and name her cailtlyn grace. i had told her after she named kayley that i would change my girl name to hailee grace. i'm so upset at her and she's thinks it's funny. i'm upset with her and i don't know what to do. when i got off the phone with her i started crying and i know my husband felt bad cause he asked me if i was upset and i had my back to him and he came over to me and saw that i was crying and he rubbed on my back for a min. is it wrong of me to be a little mad? i've come to the conclusion i'm not telling any more names to my family. i just don't know what to do cause i know that my family will call tomorrow and be really excited and i'm excited, but upset too. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif" border="0"> this should be a happy time. when i talked to my sister i asked her if she really used grace and she said yes and she told me not to worry about it cause i'm having a boy. made me a little more upset...ok i've made my self all teary eyed again so i think i'm done. thanks for listening guys!
 
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semperfiohana

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so i'm happy and excited to become an aunt. this is my sister's second kid. i had told her before i wanted to name my kid hailee elizabeth, well she named her first kayley elizabeth. she just had her second tonight and name her cailtlyn grace. i had told her after she named kayley that i would change my girl name to hailee grace. i'm so upset at her and she's thinks it's funny. i'm upset with her and i don't know what to do. when i got off the phone with her i started crying and i know my husband felt bad cause he asked me if i was upset and i had my back to him and he came over to me and saw that i was crying and he rubbed on my back for a min. is it wrong of me to be a little mad? i've come to the conclusion i'm not telling any more names to my family. i just don't know what to do cause i know that my family will call tomorrow and be really excited and i'm excited, but upset too. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif" border="0"> this should be a happy time. when i talked to my sister i asked her if she really used grace and she said yes and she told me not to worry about it cause i'm having a boy. made me a little more upset...ok i've made my self all teary eyed again so i think i'm done. thanks for listening guys!
 
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semperfiohana

Guest
so i'm happy and excited to become an aunt. this is my sister's second kid. i had told her before i wanted to name my kid hailee elizabeth, well she named her first kayley elizabeth. she just had her second tonight and name her cailtlyn grace. i had told her after she named kayley that i would change my girl name to hailee grace. i'm so upset at her and she's thinks it's funny. i'm upset with her and i don't know what to do. when i got off the phone with her i started crying and i know my husband felt bad cause he asked me if i was upset and i had my back to him and he came over to me and saw that i was crying and he rubbed on my back for a min. is it wrong of me to be a little mad? i've come to the conclusion i'm not telling any more names to my family. i just don't know what to do cause i know that my family will call tomorrow and be really excited and i'm excited, but upset too. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif" border="0"> this should be a happy time. when i talked to my sister i asked her if she really used grace and she said yes and she told me not to worry about it cause i'm having a boy. made me a little more upset...ok i've made my self all teary eyed again so i think i'm done. thanks for listening guys!
 
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semperfiohana

Guest
so i'm happy and excited to become an aunt. this is my sister's second kid. i had told her before i wanted to name my kid hailee elizabeth, well she named her first kayley elizabeth. she just had her second tonight and name her cailtlyn grace. i had told her after she named kayley that i would change my girl name to hailee grace. i'm so upset at her and she's thinks it's funny. i'm upset with her and i don't know what to do. when i got off the phone with her i started crying and i know my husband felt bad cause he asked me if i was upset and i had my back to him and he came over to me and saw that i was crying and he rubbed on my back for a min. is it wrong of me to be a little mad? i've come to the conclusion i'm not telling any more names to my family. i just don't know what to do cause i know that my family will call tomorrow and be really excited and i'm excited, but upset too. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif" border="0"> this should be a happy time. when i talked to my sister i asked her if she really used grace and she said yes and she told me not to worry about it cause i'm having a boy. made me a little more upset...ok i've made my self all teary eyed again so i think i'm done. thanks for listening guys!
 
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AnD

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I'm sorry, that is not funny in the least bit <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif" border="0"> ! If you like Grace, I'd use it. If that's not comfortable to you, then choose another name, and yes, keep it quiet, and don't feel bad about it. It will be your little "secret", just the two of you <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0"> .

In my best friend's family, they have a family tradition of the firstborn girls all having the same first name (they go by their middle names), though sometimes it ends up being the second born, too <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0"> .
 
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AnD

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I'm sorry, that is not funny in the least bit <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif" border="0"> ! If you like Grace, I'd use it. If that's not comfortable to you, then choose another name, and yes, keep it quiet, and don't feel bad about it. It will be your little "secret", just the two of you <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0"> .

In my best friend's family, they have a family tradition of the firstborn girls all having the same first name (they go by their middle names), though sometimes it ends up being the second born, too <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0"> .
 
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AnD

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I'm sorry, that is not funny in the least bit <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif" border="0"> ! If you like Grace, I'd use it. If that's not comfortable to you, then choose another name, and yes, keep it quiet, and don't feel bad about it. It will be your little "secret", just the two of you <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0"> .

In my best friend's family, they have a family tradition of the firstborn girls all having the same first name (they go by their middle names), though sometimes it ends up being the second born, too <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0"> .
 
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AnD

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I'm sorry, that is not funny in the least bit <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif" border="0"> ! If you like Grace, I'd use it. If that's not comfortable to you, then choose another name, and yes, keep it quiet, and don't feel bad about it. It will be your little "secret", just the two of you <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0"> .

In my best friend's family, they have a family tradition of the firstborn girls all having the same first name (they go by their middle names), though sometimes it ends up being the second born, too <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0"> .
 
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AnD

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I'm sorry, that is not funny in the least bit <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif" border="0"> ! If you like Grace, I'd use it. If that's not comfortable to you, then choose another name, and yes, keep it quiet, and don't feel bad about it. It will be your little "secret", just the two of you <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0"> .

In my best friend's family, they have a family tradition of the firstborn girls all having the same first name (they go by their middle names), though sometimes it ends up being the second born, too <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0"> .
 
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Hughett

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Wow, that stinks. I know that my wife and I are very protective over the girl name we have picked out. I kinda feel like where your coming from. I would hate it if someone stole our girl name. (notice I am not telling what it is. ha ha) Well, I would say that you are a very creative person and she liked that creativity...alot. It was kinda insensitive to know that you wanted that name and use it. Side note though. My sister is named Hannah. My other sister named her kid Hannah. My cousin just named their baby Hannah. We tried to use the names Big Hannah for my older sister and little Hannah for my niece. LOL As you can imagine, that didn't last long. <img src=""> I hope you feel better soon and just for you I will PM you our special name we picked out. Mabey you will like it too.

<UL>P.s. We will find out tomorrow afternoon what we are having! At least we have a girls name picked out. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0"> </UL>
 
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Hughett

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Wow, that stinks. I know that my wife and I are very protective over the girl name we have picked out. I kinda feel like where your coming from. I would hate it if someone stole our girl name. (notice I am not telling what it is. ha ha) Well, I would say that you are a very creative person and she liked that creativity...alot. It was kinda insensitive to know that you wanted that name and use it. Side note though. My sister is named Hannah. My other sister named her kid Hannah. My cousin just named their baby Hannah. We tried to use the names Big Hannah for my older sister and little Hannah for my niece. LOL As you can imagine, that didn't last long. <img src=""> I hope you feel better soon and just for you I will PM you our special name we picked out. Mabey you will like it too.

<UL>P.s. We will find out tomorrow afternoon what we are having! At least we have a girls name picked out. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0"> </UL>
 
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Hughett

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Wow, that stinks. I know that my wife and I are very protective over the girl name we have picked out. I kinda feel like where your coming from. I would hate it if someone stole our girl name. (notice I am not telling what it is. ha ha) Well, I would say that you are a very creative person and she liked that creativity...alot. It was kinda insensitive to know that you wanted that name and use it. Side note though. My sister is named Hannah. My other sister named her kid Hannah. My cousin just named their baby Hannah. We tried to use the names Big Hannah for my older sister and little Hannah for my niece. LOL As you can imagine, that didn't last long. <img src=""> I hope you feel better soon and just for you I will PM you our special name we picked out. Mabey you will like it too.

<UL>P.s. We will find out tomorrow afternoon what we are having! At least we have a girls name picked out. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0"> </UL>
 
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Hughett

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Wow, that stinks. I know that my wife and I are very protective over the girl name we have picked out. I kinda feel like where your coming from. I would hate it if someone stole our girl name. (notice I am not telling what it is. ha ha) Well, I would say that you are a very creative person and she liked that creativity...alot. It was kinda insensitive to know that you wanted that name and use it. Side note though. My sister is named Hannah. My other sister named her kid Hannah. My cousin just named their baby Hannah. We tried to use the names Big Hannah for my older sister and little Hannah for my niece. LOL As you can imagine, that didn't last long. <img src=""> I hope you feel better soon and just for you I will PM you our special name we picked out. Mabey you will like it too.

<UL>P.s. We will find out tomorrow afternoon what we are having! At least we have a girls name picked out. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0"> </UL>
 
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Hughett

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Wow, that stinks. I know that my wife and I are very protective over the girl name we have picked out. I kinda feel like where your coming from. I would hate it if someone stole our girl name. (notice I am not telling what it is. ha ha) Well, I would say that you are a very creative person and she liked that creativity...alot. It was kinda insensitive to know that you wanted that name and use it. Side note though. My sister is named Hannah. My other sister named her kid Hannah. My cousin just named their baby Hannah. We tried to use the names Big Hannah for my older sister and little Hannah for my niece. LOL As you can imagine, that didn't last long. <img src=""> I hope you feel better soon and just for you I will PM you our special name we picked out. Mabey you will like it too.

<UL>P.s. We will find out tomorrow afternoon what we are having! At least we have a girls name picked out. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0"> </UL>
 
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shamrock

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Oooo that's frustrating

But if it's the second name does it matter so much? I mean it would be disastrous if she had used the same first name, but the second name? Or would you be calling her the two names (Kinda lisa-marie like?). I'd name your child what you want <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0">
 
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shamrock

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Oooo that's frustrating

But if it's the second name does it matter so much? I mean it would be disastrous if she had used the same first name, but the second name? Or would you be calling her the two names (Kinda lisa-marie like?). I'd name your child what you want <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0">
 
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shamrock

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Oooo that's frustrating

But if it's the second name does it matter so much? I mean it would be disastrous if she had used the same first name, but the second name? Or would you be calling her the two names (Kinda lisa-marie like?). I'd name your child what you want <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0">
 
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shamrock

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Oooo that's frustrating

But if it's the second name does it matter so much? I mean it would be disastrous if she had used the same first name, but the second name? Or would you be calling her the two names (Kinda lisa-marie like?). I'd name your child what you want <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0">
 
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shamrock

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Oooo that's frustrating

But if it's the second name does it matter so much? I mean it would be disastrous if she had used the same first name, but the second name? Or would you be calling her the two names (Kinda lisa-marie like?). I'd name your child what you want <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0">
 
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