Becca,
have you considered applying for the IVF scholarship on www.inciid.org ? I was actually selected for it 3 years ago, but was already pregnant by the time they contacted me. If you are interested, let me know and I'll give you copies of the letter we wrote up. we were picked as one of their top 5 couples that cycle. Don't give up yet, if this is what you really desire follow your heart!!!!!!