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lightNlife

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If you were to be told that today will be the last day of your life, what three important things will you do?

<a target=_blank class=ftalternatingbarlinklarge href="http://www.helium.com/tm/131045">Read my answer here</a>

I'm not the sort of person who dwells on thoughts of death in a morbid manner, nor am I in denial about the reality of my condition. My fight is far from over, but should it all end tomorrow, I will go in peace.
 

lightNlife

New member
If you were to be told that today will be the last day of your life, what three important things will you do?

<a target=_blank class=ftalternatingbarlinklarge href="http://www.helium.com/tm/131045">Read my answer here</a>

I'm not the sort of person who dwells on thoughts of death in a morbid manner, nor am I in denial about the reality of my condition. My fight is far from over, but should it all end tomorrow, I will go in peace.
 

lightNlife

New member
If you were to be told that today will be the last day of your life, what three important things will you do?

<a target=_blank class=ftalternatingbarlinklarge href="http://www.helium.com/tm/131045">Read my answer here</a>

I'm not the sort of person who dwells on thoughts of death in a morbid manner, nor am I in denial about the reality of my condition. My fight is far from over, but should it all end tomorrow, I will go in peace.
 

Allie

New member
1. I would thank Hannah and Michael for all they have done for me, and intruct them on how to continue raising Ahava in the way I've tried to, though I doubt they'd need little help.

2. I'd call up all my friends who have helped me so much over the years and tell them how much I loved them.

3. I'd spend the rest of the day with my daughter, doing as many fun things as I could pack in with her.

This was really thought provoking, thanks for posting it.
 

Allie

New member
1. I would thank Hannah and Michael for all they have done for me, and intruct them on how to continue raising Ahava in the way I've tried to, though I doubt they'd need little help.

2. I'd call up all my friends who have helped me so much over the years and tell them how much I loved them.

3. I'd spend the rest of the day with my daughter, doing as many fun things as I could pack in with her.

This was really thought provoking, thanks for posting it.
 

Allie

New member
1. I would thank Hannah and Michael for all they have done for me, and intruct them on how to continue raising Ahava in the way I've tried to, though I doubt they'd need little help.

2. I'd call up all my friends who have helped me so much over the years and tell them how much I loved them.

3. I'd spend the rest of the day with my daughter, doing as many fun things as I could pack in with her.

This was really thought provoking, thanks for posting it.
 

coltsfan715

New member
This is a good post.

1. I would spend at least an hour with each of my parents and make sure that all the things I wanted to say were said and give them the chance to say what they needed/wanted to say as well.

2. I would play with my cat and pet him and love on him some. He likes that and I would probably cry about how I would miss him (and everyone else for that matter lol).

3. Kurt - I would spend the rest of my day with Kurt. I would love him and kiss him, hold him, snuggle into him. I would memorize every line of his face, the curves in his lips, hands, arms, stomach ... everything. I would just completely throw myself into being with him and only him. I would make sure that our last day together on this Earth would be one he would remember forever.

Thank you for this post.

Take Care,
Lindsey
 

coltsfan715

New member
This is a good post.

1. I would spend at least an hour with each of my parents and make sure that all the things I wanted to say were said and give them the chance to say what they needed/wanted to say as well.

2. I would play with my cat and pet him and love on him some. He likes that and I would probably cry about how I would miss him (and everyone else for that matter lol).

3. Kurt - I would spend the rest of my day with Kurt. I would love him and kiss him, hold him, snuggle into him. I would memorize every line of his face, the curves in his lips, hands, arms, stomach ... everything. I would just completely throw myself into being with him and only him. I would make sure that our last day together on this Earth would be one he would remember forever.

Thank you for this post.

Take Care,
Lindsey
 

coltsfan715

New member
This is a good post.

1. I would spend at least an hour with each of my parents and make sure that all the things I wanted to say were said and give them the chance to say what they needed/wanted to say as well.

2. I would play with my cat and pet him and love on him some. He likes that and I would probably cry about how I would miss him (and everyone else for that matter lol).

3. Kurt - I would spend the rest of my day with Kurt. I would love him and kiss him, hold him, snuggle into him. I would memorize every line of his face, the curves in his lips, hands, arms, stomach ... everything. I would just completely throw myself into being with him and only him. I would make sure that our last day together on this Earth would be one he would remember forever.

Thank you for this post.

Take Care,
Lindsey
 
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65rosessamurai

Guest
Realistically?
Since I'd have no time to take my wife to the U.S. to spend with family, I would have to:

1. Call the ex-wife (no time to go see her) to tell her to go to bielzebub!
2. Call my sister to make arrangements for my remains, last will, etc, and pass along to my brothers to make amends to the feud that has gone on too long (Since calling them myself would take away number 3).
3. Take the wife somewhere quiet, away from the MIL, to spend the remaining time together.

Since there is no 4, or 5, can't say goodbye to my pet Cockatiel! Gosh, can't tell the MIL goodbye, but then she can't even remember when her own husband passed!

If, I were given more than a day (travel time), I'd
1) Take the wife to visit family, then
2) visit my brothers, whom each lives in a different State. Oh, yea,
3) I'd still call up the ex (or even go see her) so I can tell her to go to bielzebub!

Edited to add: In this manner, at least I can resolve my biggest regrets, and forgive the small ones!

P.S. I read your answer after my first posting!
 
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65rosessamurai

Guest
Realistically?
Since I'd have no time to take my wife to the U.S. to spend with family, I would have to:

1. Call the ex-wife (no time to go see her) to tell her to go to bielzebub!
2. Call my sister to make arrangements for my remains, last will, etc, and pass along to my brothers to make amends to the feud that has gone on too long (Since calling them myself would take away number 3).
3. Take the wife somewhere quiet, away from the MIL, to spend the remaining time together.

Since there is no 4, or 5, can't say goodbye to my pet Cockatiel! Gosh, can't tell the MIL goodbye, but then she can't even remember when her own husband passed!

If, I were given more than a day (travel time), I'd
1) Take the wife to visit family, then
2) visit my brothers, whom each lives in a different State. Oh, yea,
3) I'd still call up the ex (or even go see her) so I can tell her to go to bielzebub!

Edited to add: In this manner, at least I can resolve my biggest regrets, and forgive the small ones!

P.S. I read your answer after my first posting!
 
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65rosessamurai

Guest
Realistically?
Since I'd have no time to take my wife to the U.S. to spend with family, I would have to:

1. Call the ex-wife (no time to go see her) to tell her to go to bielzebub!
2. Call my sister to make arrangements for my remains, last will, etc, and pass along to my brothers to make amends to the feud that has gone on too long (Since calling them myself would take away number 3).
3. Take the wife somewhere quiet, away from the MIL, to spend the remaining time together.

Since there is no 4, or 5, can't say goodbye to my pet Cockatiel! Gosh, can't tell the MIL goodbye, but then she can't even remember when her own husband passed!

If, I were given more than a day (travel time), I'd
1) Take the wife to visit family, then
2) visit my brothers, whom each lives in a different State. Oh, yea,
3) I'd still call up the ex (or even go see her) so I can tell her to go to bielzebub!

Edited to add: In this manner, at least I can resolve my biggest regrets, and forgive the small ones!

P.S. I read your answer after my first posting!
 

rotandroll

New member
This is rad.

1) I would sit down and have drinks with everyone I love. I would make sure they knew what they meant to me by not only saying so, but by spending my life savings buying them beer.

2) I would thank my healthcare team for their hard work and support. I would also buy them beer.

3) I would take some quiet time to myself to reflect, listen to some songs I love, think about all the good things that have gone on in my life, take a moment to forgive old grudges while sipping on a glass of good whiskey, preferrably Crown Royal. Or maybe even just some good old Jame-o.

Funny how I don't really drink much in life, but in death... Yes! Cheers to that.
 

rotandroll

New member
This is rad.

1) I would sit down and have drinks with everyone I love. I would make sure they knew what they meant to me by not only saying so, but by spending my life savings buying them beer.

2) I would thank my healthcare team for their hard work and support. I would also buy them beer.

3) I would take some quiet time to myself to reflect, listen to some songs I love, think about all the good things that have gone on in my life, take a moment to forgive old grudges while sipping on a glass of good whiskey, preferrably Crown Royal. Or maybe even just some good old Jame-o.

Funny how I don't really drink much in life, but in death... Yes! Cheers to that.
 

rotandroll

New member
This is rad.

1) I would sit down and have drinks with everyone I love. I would make sure they knew what they meant to me by not only saying so, but by spending my life savings buying them beer.

2) I would thank my healthcare team for their hard work and support. I would also buy them beer.

3) I would take some quiet time to myself to reflect, listen to some songs I love, think about all the good things that have gone on in my life, take a moment to forgive old grudges while sipping on a glass of good whiskey, preferrably Crown Royal. Or maybe even just some good old Jame-o.

Funny how I don't really drink much in life, but in death... Yes! Cheers to that.
 

wanderlost

New member
I would have a party.

I would tell everyone I really loved to come and be with me at the Last Day of My Life Party. I would strap my kids onto my body in some fashion so that they were with me every minute of that last day and I would smile and laugh and cry (and make sure my will was in order) with all the people I love...

I would go down singing.
 

wanderlost

New member
I would have a party.

I would tell everyone I really loved to come and be with me at the Last Day of My Life Party. I would strap my kids onto my body in some fashion so that they were with me every minute of that last day and I would smile and laugh and cry (and make sure my will was in order) with all the people I love...

I would go down singing.
 

wanderlost

New member
I would have a party.

I would tell everyone I really loved to come and be with me at the Last Day of My Life Party. I would strap my kids onto my body in some fashion so that they were with me every minute of that last day and I would smile and laugh and cry (and make sure my will was in order) with all the people I love...

I would go down singing.
 

princessjdc

New member
Shoot this is a good one and a tuff one to answer, because Ive never thought of this before.

1. I would diffanatly get my family together and my inlaws together, cause they mean so much too me too
2. Let each and everyone of them know what they ment to me on this earth and how they have helped me, and that I love them too.
3. Get a will put together so my husband will know what I want and to spend a lot of time with my husband and tell him how much he has ment to me in this world and how glad I am that he came into my life and that he shared so many great things with me.
 

princessjdc

New member
Shoot this is a good one and a tuff one to answer, because Ive never thought of this before.

1. I would diffanatly get my family together and my inlaws together, cause they mean so much too me too
2. Let each and everyone of them know what they ment to me on this earth and how they have helped me, and that I love them too.
3. Get a will put together so my husband will know what I want and to spend a lot of time with my husband and tell him how much he has ment to me in this world and how glad I am that he came into my life and that he shared so many great things with me.
 
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