So I have a question. Mike and I want to get married someday but there are complications. He will be getting his transplant anyday now. After that will be recovery, lots of meds, and eventually he wants to go back to college to become a counselor for other CF patients. I have a good fulltime job as a speech-language pathologist, but my income and health insurance won't be good enough for two. While he is recovering and in school, it's best for him to stay on disability and get state coverage, which he'd lose by marrying me I think. So here's my question. Can we get "married" (have a wedding) but just not make it legal by signing anything. Nobody needs to know really. I just would be proud to call him my "husband". Anyone know?
-Katy (at work)
-Katy (at work)