I already posted this in the "Teenagers and Young People" forum,
but I'll repost it here too: I'll give you guys
a quick synopsis of my friend. They have cystic fibrosis, and are
currently in failing health. The person is in their mid teens, and
most of thier major organs are failing either due to her disease,
or the fact that they overdosed on pills when they were younger. My
friend has lived an unfairly harsh life due to their family
problems. I do not want to get into it, but they have suffered from
some pretty harsh things. I talked to my
friend earlier today to learn that they were coughing up blood. My
friend coughs a lot, to the point were they get huge migraines, and
even vomiting. However, they usually do not vomit/cough up blood.
I'm also very concerned because for the past month or so, they
cannot hold down any food whatsoever. They cannot get any nutrition
since that they are often times starved of food, and when they do
get some... they just vomit it up. I told them
to go to the hospital, but they flat out refuse. My friend is very
stubborn, something I almost admire about them, when it doesn't get
in the way of their own safety. When I try to convince them to go
to the hospital, they claim that it is just a temporary fix, and is
just slowing down the inevitable. I know that CF will eventually be
their demise, I just don't want it to happen so quickly. I am so
worried about my friend. I told them that it may be just slowing
down CF's effects on their lungs, but all we need is time so that
they can live long enough to get the heart/lung transplant they are
signed up for. They would be getting it in about three years, and
I'm not too sure my friend has that long, especially if they do not
keep proper care of themselves. Then my friend
told me that they do not want the transplant, to my horror. My
friend thinks that just because they over dosed, they do not
deserve it. In reality, I tink they are very deserving of one. I
try to convince them of this, but they just say that they will just
exist until their lung collapses. It is pretty much amazing that
they even made it on the list in the first place, given their other
complications. My friend is selfless, they want a more
"deserving" person, who did not try to take their own
life to have one. I think they are tired of suffering from their
various illnesses. I am a wishful thinker, I
want my friend to live a normal life span. Now to my questions, is
coughing up blood the last sign before things get really bad? Will
it get worse, and worse? Will their condition ever get better? Is
there anything I can do to convince them that they are worth the
transplant?
but I'll repost it here too: I'll give you guys
a quick synopsis of my friend. They have cystic fibrosis, and are
currently in failing health. The person is in their mid teens, and
most of thier major organs are failing either due to her disease,
or the fact that they overdosed on pills when they were younger. My
friend has lived an unfairly harsh life due to their family
problems. I do not want to get into it, but they have suffered from
some pretty harsh things. I talked to my
friend earlier today to learn that they were coughing up blood. My
friend coughs a lot, to the point were they get huge migraines, and
even vomiting. However, they usually do not vomit/cough up blood.
I'm also very concerned because for the past month or so, they
cannot hold down any food whatsoever. They cannot get any nutrition
since that they are often times starved of food, and when they do
get some... they just vomit it up. I told them
to go to the hospital, but they flat out refuse. My friend is very
stubborn, something I almost admire about them, when it doesn't get
in the way of their own safety. When I try to convince them to go
to the hospital, they claim that it is just a temporary fix, and is
just slowing down the inevitable. I know that CF will eventually be
their demise, I just don't want it to happen so quickly. I am so
worried about my friend. I told them that it may be just slowing
down CF's effects on their lungs, but all we need is time so that
they can live long enough to get the heart/lung transplant they are
signed up for. They would be getting it in about three years, and
I'm not too sure my friend has that long, especially if they do not
keep proper care of themselves. Then my friend
told me that they do not want the transplant, to my horror. My
friend thinks that just because they over dosed, they do not
deserve it. In reality, I tink they are very deserving of one. I
try to convince them of this, but they just say that they will just
exist until their lung collapses. It is pretty much amazing that
they even made it on the list in the first place, given their other
complications. My friend is selfless, they want a more
"deserving" person, who did not try to take their own
life to have one. I think they are tired of suffering from their
various illnesses. I am a wishful thinker, I
want my friend to live a normal life span. Now to my questions, is
coughing up blood the last sign before things get really bad? Will
it get worse, and worse? Will their condition ever get better? Is
there anything I can do to convince them that they are worth the
transplant?