Nope. Never. "They need to be able to see the site..."
I totally know that feeling, though. I've had lines that oozed and I just wanted something there to soak it up instead of direct tegaderm! I was never given gauze after the initial placement, even though there were times I asked. I also asked a few times for gauze just so I wouldn't have to see the actual site (it used to wig me out a little)...but that, then, defeats the purpose of the clear tegaderm dressing.
Oh well. lol
Good luck, hope it gets better.