Okay, I've made this point before, but with this point I feel the need to make it again. I don't say this assuming everyone does it, but it sounds like some of you might be. So here goes. Let me start by asking a question... What good does it do to add maybe six months to your child's life by "being careful" if their entire lives are lived in a closet? You can try and shelter your kids from everything that might let them contract A or B, but what's the point? You can make hand-washing important without forbidding the kids to go swim when they want. You can never keep everything harmful from your kids. I'll throw in my own personal experience. I have, I think, 3 different strains of pseudomonas. But in contracting these infections, I live my life. I have fun, I go out, I swim when I want. I go into public when I want despite what cold or flu may be going around. I tried smoking pot, I drink now and then. My parents know of these things and let them happen. Instead of trying to forbid harmful or dangerous things (mind you, I drink, but know better than to drink and drive), they let me live, try stuff, and make my own mistakes. I deal with these infections maybe twice or thrice a year when they start growing again, and I don't regret any of it. They're worth it. Yes, I have infections. Your kids will too at some point. It's inevitable. But I have a good life, and I've never been locked in a closet. As a CFer, I will tell you, if you try and shut your kids in a box, they will use their own minds at some point and rebel and it'll end up being something you regret. And as I started with a question, I shall also finish with one... If it was you, would you prefer living an extra six months by being too careful, or living maybe a little bit shorter, but a full and lovely life? Think of it in quality, instead of quantity. <img src="i/expressions/rose.gif" border="0">