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pyriah
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I lost my father to CF when I was 11. According my mother, he wasn't diagnosed until sometime in his 30's. He also fathered another child, my little brother (we're 25 and 21 years old). My dad was 38 when he passed on.All I knew when I was little was that my father was sick. I knew he had a piece of his lung removed when I was about 6 or 7. After my parents divorced when I was 4, we live a state away from eachother, so I didn't 'grow up' with him around. I never knew anything about his disease. I was fortunate to spend the last 3 years of his life getting to know him and we were very very close. Much later, I asked my mom what he had died from. I didn't know anything about CF, so in high school I started reading (I found the greatest book about a girl named Christine, it's still my favorite. Whether CF is an issue in your life or not it is a GREAT read. It's called Give Me One Wish by Jaqui Gordon. PLEASE find a copy of it, especially if you have an adolescent with CF). In the book, Christine gave an oral presentation to her class about her disease. Part of her 'lesson' stunned me... "Males with CF are sterile." According to everything I read now, the percentage of males with CF who are sterile is 98%. I didn't understand how me or my brother existed, given that new discovery.I went to the library and scoured all the health books and journals I could find, and while I found that there is a much rarer form of CF where the CF shows up later in life, it still didn't go into detail and I still don't know anything about this particular kind of CF.Now my dad's brother, my Uncle Tim (who I am very close to) has just been diagnosed. He is a father of 3 (20, 18, 16) and I'm in shock. It's pretty devastating after all these years to know that someone else in my family has to go through this. I'm not sure but I think my uncle is in his mid-to-late 40's. Also, he and my father were the only children of their generation. And now that we know they BOTH will have had it, I'm terrified about what this means for me, my brother, and my brother's 4 year old. And I'm angry. Does anyone out there know anything about this form of CF??? Sorry my post was so long. I'm new to the forum. I'll be flying home for 2 weeks tomorrow, but I will SOOO be looking forward to what I find here when I get back. Feel free to email: pyriah@comcast.netThank you everyone.