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SilentEarth3
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I have a problem and I was wondering if there would be anyone who could give me some advice. My boyfriend and I recently broke up. We were together for off and on 2 years and 9 months. He has CF and it seems that everytime his health starts to get worse or everytime he needs to go into the hospital for more then the usual 2 weeks he breaks up with me. The problem I'm at now is that his health is doing really bad and he broke up with me again. This time I got some kind of answers from him. He told me that he is in love with me still, but he cant be with me because I make him want more in life. He said that I make him afraid to die and he doesnt ever want to be afraid to die. He started dating another girl and they're now "engaged." I use the term loosly because neither of them will wear a ring or set a date. They have only been together for two months. He still tells me that he is in love with me and all the same stuff as when we were together, but now he is saying its because of those things that we cant be together. He says that I make him think about the future and he doesnt want to think about the future. This girl is so not good for him either. She wont even go to the hospital with him. My ex says that being with her is a comfort because he doesnt have to care about their future or what he says or does to her. I guess basically what I'm asking is, is there anyway I can change his mind? Is there anyway I can help him realize that this isnt a way to live? Am I the one who is wrong here? Should I just let him go? Everyone that we know says he'll eventually come back, he always has, but this seems different to me. So I guess I'm asking if there is anyone out there who can give some kind of advice on how to best handle this situation. I really do love the guy. I'd appriciate anything you guys can give me. Feel free to email me too, just make sure you put a subject that'll remind me that its from here. I get so much SPAM. Thanks guy!
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I have a problem and I was wondering if there would be anyone who could give me some advice. My boyfriend and I recently broke up. We were together for off and on 2 years and 9 months. He has CF and it seems that everytime his health starts to get worse or everytime he needs to go into the hospital for more then the usual 2 weeks he breaks up with me. The problem I'm at now is that his health is doing really bad and he broke up with me again. This time I got some kind of answers from him. He told me that he is in love with me still, but he cant be with me because I make him want more in life. He said that I make him afraid to die and he doesnt ever want to be afraid to die. He started dating another girl and they're now "engaged." I use the term loosly because neither of them will wear a ring or set a date. They have only been together for two months. He still tells me that he is in love with me and all the same stuff as when we were together, but now he is saying its because of those things that we cant be together. He says that I make him think about the future and he doesnt want to think about the future. This girl is so not good for him either. She wont even go to the hospital with him. My ex says that being with her is a comfort because he doesnt have to care about their future or what he says or does to her. I guess basically what I'm asking is, is there anyway I can change his mind? Is there anyway I can help him realize that this isnt a way to live? Am I the one who is wrong here? Should I just let him go? Everyone that we know says he'll eventually come back, he always has, but this seems different to me. So I guess I'm asking if there is anyone out there who can give some kind of advice on how to best handle this situation. I really do love the guy. I'd appriciate anything you guys can give me. Feel free to email me too, just make sure you put a subject that'll remind me that its from here. I get so much SPAM. Thanks guy!
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