Well this isnt really related to cf but i guess i need somewhere to vent out. iv been dating my man for 2yrs now we have been really good together hes always cookn for me making sure i eat good.but then he does this weird thing where hel shut his self away and not want to talk or open up about his feelings when somethng is bothering him and this could be anything...i dont know i prolly dont make any sense but i just wish he wouldnt make me worry or think its me i askd him tonight hes like no its not you!he told me hed see me tomorow and i drove home which is not normal at all <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif" border="0"> kinda upset but im comfort eating which is a good <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif" border="0"> lol but i dont know he said he had a headache so im like wel take some asprin just being the caring girlfriend and hes like weve been dating two years now you know i dont take stuff im like woa!!!chill out and then hes like well im guess im going to lay down and thats when i was like ok would you like me to chill here hes like ill just see you tomorow and i was sad <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif" border="0"> i textd him when i got home and just said i love you and why does he push me away <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif" border="0"> al i do is be nice and care and he jumps at me and gets ugly i dont know he says he loves me to pieces and i know he has a serios court date comin up july 13th which could mean prison time but tonight i dont think it has anything to do with it i askd him how his day was at work he just said another day...he can be very hard headed and stubborn to i must say but to me its almost like imature i mean i dont ever act like he does when i feel sick im still being nice sweet if anything i just wanan cuddle up and watch movies but he does this thing where its like leave me alone?so i guess is there anyone out there in relationships that are serios that has any advice or can relate to there men being so weird???im on my own tonight id love to hear yalls opinions <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> thank you
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Well this isnt really related to cf but i guess i need somewhere to vent out. iv been dating my man for 2yrs now we have been really good together hes always cookn for me making sure i eat good.but then he does this weird thing where hel shut his self away and not want to talk or open up about his feelings when somethng is bothering him and this could be anything...i dont know i prolly dont make any sense but i just wish he wouldnt make me worry or think its me i askd him tonight hes like no its not you!he told me hed see me tomorow and i drove home which is not normal at all <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif" border="0"> kinda upset but im comfort eating which is a good <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif" border="0"> lol but i dont know he said he had a headache so im like wel take some asprin just being the caring girlfriend and hes like weve been dating two years now you know i dont take stuff im like woa!!!chill out and then hes like well im guess im going to lay down and thats when i was like ok would you like me to chill here hes like ill just see you tomorow and i was sad <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif" border="0"> i textd him when i got home and just said i love you and why does he push me away <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif" border="0"> al i do is be nice and care and he jumps at me and gets ugly i dont know he says he loves me to pieces and i know he has a serios court date comin up july 13th which could mean prison time but tonight i dont think it has anything to do with it i askd him how his day was at work he just said another day...he can be very hard headed and stubborn to i must say but to me its almost like imature i mean i dont ever act like he does when i feel sick im still being nice sweet if anything i just wanan cuddle up and watch movies but he does this thing where its like leave me alone?so i guess is there anyone out there in relationships that are serios that has any advice or can relate to there men being so weird???im on my own tonight id love to hear yalls opinions <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> thank you
Well this isnt really related to cf but i guess i need somewhere to vent out. iv been dating my man for 2yrs now we have been really good together hes always cookn for me making sure i eat good.but then he does this weird thing where hel shut his self away and not want to talk or open up about his feelings when somethng is bothering him and this could be anything...i dont know i prolly dont make any sense but i just wish he wouldnt make me worry or think its me i askd him tonight hes like no its not you!he told me hed see me tomorow and i drove home which is not normal at all <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif" border="0"> kinda upset but im comfort eating which is a good <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif" border="0"> lol but i dont know he said he had a headache so im like wel take some asprin just being the caring girlfriend and hes like weve been dating two years now you know i dont take stuff im like woa!!!chill out and then hes like well im guess im going to lay down and thats when i was like ok would you like me to chill here hes like ill just see you tomorow and i was sad <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif" border="0"> i textd him when i got home and just said i love you and why does he push me away <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif" border="0"> al i do is be nice and care and he jumps at me and gets ugly i dont know he says he loves me to pieces and i know he has a serios court date comin up july 13th which could mean prison time but tonight i dont think it has anything to do with it i askd him how his day was at work he just said another day...he can be very hard headed and stubborn to i must say but to me its almost like imature i mean i dont ever act like he does when i feel sick im still being nice sweet if anything i just wanan cuddle up and watch movies but he does this thing where its like leave me alone?so i guess is there anyone out there in relationships that are serios that has any advice or can relate to there men being so weird???im on my own tonight id love to hear yalls opinions <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> thank you
jbrandonAW
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I've been married for 4 years now, and my husband does this ALL the time. Men are just weird like that. They don't really do feelings. I have to bug the crap out of my husband to get him to open up...
jbrandonAW
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I've been married for 4 years now, and my husband does this ALL the time. Men are just weird like that. They don't really do feelings. I have to bug the crap out of my husband to get him to open up...
jbrandonAW
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I've been married for 4 years now, and my husband does this ALL the time. Men are just weird like that. They don't really do feelings. I have to bug the crap out of my husband to get him to open up...
Its soooo anoying though im like seriosly i open up why cant he and so now im left to wander what did i do?is it me?whats he thinking?etc. i mean just talk ya know :/ and if i say something he snaps at me and raises his voice and gets mad and its like real awkward then <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif" border="0">
Its soooo anoying though im like seriosly i open up why cant he and so now im left to wander what did i do?is it me?whats he thinking?etc. i mean just talk ya know :/ and if i say something he snaps at me and raises his voice and gets mad and its like real awkward then <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif" border="0">
Its soooo anoying though im like seriosly i open up why cant he and so now im left to wander what did i do?is it me?whats he thinking?etc. i mean just talk ya know :/ and if i say something he snaps at me and raises his voice and gets mad and its like real awkward then <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif" border="0">
Oh and let me add i ask myself when this happens beacuse he says for me to go home well what if we have a place he says alot how he wants a place so how would he handle not feeln good or whatever then?..i mean its jus dumb i think <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif" border="0">
Oh and let me add i ask myself when this happens beacuse he says for me to go home well what if we have a place he says alot how he wants a place so how would he handle not feeln good or whatever then?..i mean its jus dumb i think <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif" border="0">
Oh and let me add i ask myself when this happens beacuse he says for me to go home well what if we have a place he says alot how he wants a place so how would he handle not feeln good or whatever then?..i mean its jus dumb i think <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif" border="0">
my65roses4me
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I have to ask because my curiosity has gotten the best of me, why will he be going to prison? Just on that fact alone maybe you should reconsider who you are with. It doesnt sound like he treats you nicely. I have been married for 12 yrs and i can count on one hand how many times my husband has yelled at me out of frustration. You deserve to be treated with respect and dignity. Men dont usually like to share their feelings as much as women do, but if you are left feeling like its your fault, then its called mind games. I dont mean to sound so harsh, but you are to young to be stuck with someone for the rest of your life that does not respect you. Just my humble opinion.... <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
my65roses4me
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I have to ask because my curiosity has gotten the best of me, why will he be going to prison? Just on that fact alone maybe you should reconsider who you are with. It doesnt sound like he treats you nicely. I have been married for 12 yrs and i can count on one hand how many times my husband has yelled at me out of frustration. You deserve to be treated with respect and dignity. Men dont usually like to share their feelings as much as women do, but if you are left feeling like its your fault, then its called mind games. I dont mean to sound so harsh, but you are to young to be stuck with someone for the rest of your life that does not respect you. Just my humble opinion.... <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
my65roses4me
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I have to ask because my curiosity has gotten the best of me, why will he be going to prison? Just on that fact alone maybe you should reconsider who you are with. It doesnt sound like he treats you nicely. I have been married for 12 yrs and i can count on one hand how many times my husband has yelled at me out of frustration. You deserve to be treated with respect and dignity. Men dont usually like to share their feelings as much as women do, but if you are left feeling like its your fault, then its called mind games. I dont mean to sound so harsh, but you are to young to be stuck with someone for the rest of your life that does not respect you. Just my humble opinion.... <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
randomgirl
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My boyfriend (of almost 3 yrs) does stuff like that too where he just kinda shuts down but usually he'll end up telling me whats the matter. I don't think it's neccessary to know everything that they are thinking all the time. It's just important for him to know that your there for him and sometimes that's all you can do. And then some people just want to be alone sometimes which is normal. Maybe you don't understand that feeling of wanting to be alone since you like to be close and stuff...? I don't know...those are just my thoughts and I'm sure yall will work it out or just not make a big deal out of it which is fine too.
randomgirl
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My boyfriend (of almost 3 yrs) does stuff like that too where he just kinda shuts down but usually he'll end up telling me whats the matter. I don't think it's neccessary to know everything that they are thinking all the time. It's just important for him to know that your there for him and sometimes that's all you can do. And then some people just want to be alone sometimes which is normal. Maybe you don't understand that feeling of wanting to be alone since you like to be close and stuff...? I don't know...those are just my thoughts and I'm sure yall will work it out or just not make a big deal out of it which is fine too.
randomgirl
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My boyfriend (of almost 3 yrs) does stuff like that too where he just kinda shuts down but usually he'll end up telling me whats the matter. I don't think it's neccessary to know everything that they are thinking all the time. It's just important for him to know that your there for him and sometimes that's all you can do. And then some people just want to be alone sometimes which is normal. Maybe you don't understand that feeling of wanting to be alone since you like to be close and stuff...? I don't know...those are just my thoughts and I'm sure yall will work it out or just not make a big deal out of it which is fine too.
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Aftershock68
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I agree with Kristina. You have enough to deal with just with your CF. I am 41 and until recently and especially when I was your age, I always dated "bad boys." Then I slowly figured out why......not only are they fun, but they have just as many "issues" as I do, just in a different way, so I felt we were even. I had to put up with his drinking or doing drugs, and he had to deal with my CF. Does this sound familiar? Look, maybe I'm way off here, but it's just something for you to think about. You really do deserve somebody who is going to be there for you, not in a prison cell, CF has nothing to do with it really.
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Aftershock68
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I agree with Kristina. You have enough to deal with just with your CF. I am 41 and until recently and especially when I was your age, I always dated "bad boys." Then I slowly figured out why......not only are they fun, but they have just as many "issues" as I do, just in a different way, so I felt we were even. I had to put up with his drinking or doing drugs, and he had to deal with my CF. Does this sound familiar? Look, maybe I'm way off here, but it's just something for you to think about. You really do deserve somebody who is going to be there for you, not in a prison cell, CF has nothing to do with it really.