Sexuality...enter with care

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anonymous

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OK, I know this topic will probably create some (if not lots) of controversy. That is not my intent, but I was just wondering about sexuality. Is there anyone on here that is homosexual? I hear a lot of husband/wife, boy/girl friend stuff and that's all. I was just wondering....
I know that CF is hard enough to deal with but I was wondering if anyone also dealt with their sexuality or coming out of the closet.
Feel free to answer....just don't be too mean.

And I'm purposly keeping my name off here....I'm a chicken
 
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Emily65Roses

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Well I'll start the thread off on a positive note, so as to hope that it continues in the same fashion. I'm with a guy now, and overall, I'd say I'm certainly straight. However, in high school I was curious and tried things with girls. It was interesting, but nothing that grabbed me much.

As for my current position on it... I'd say if I have to stick myself with a label, then I'm straight. But if I'm ever single again, I wouldn't avoid girls altogether simply because they're girls. I fall in love with <i>people</i>, not gender. So I suppose I'm straight, but I'm open to any possibility.
 
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anonymous

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I know lots of same sex couples. I've never seen it as something odd to be open about sexuality. People should take others for who they are. I really hope every one keeps any rude comments to themselves.
 
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timmy

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to the author: just curious if u are homosexual yourself? This question would make more sense if that were the case. Why don't you tell us some of your own struggles with homosexuality? ??
 
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anonymous

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If you are gay, I hope you are comfortable with yourself because that is the first step. Although it is hard to ignore what others may think, you have the right to be who you are! I support you <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> Not sure this helps at all, but you do have a supporter in me <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"><img src="i/expressions/rose.gif" border="0">
 
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anonymous

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Chicken here...
Well in high school I did get involved with a girl (I'm also a female). She was my best friend and it was beautiful, we enjoyed each other on every level. Then I went to college, I only did a tiny bit of experimentation (spelling?). But I have ALWAYS fantasized about women. In fact, in the past I have viewed lesbian 'stuff' in magazines, etc. I am married to a man but I find myself having sex dreams of women and even when I am having sex I can only imagine what a woman would be doing.
Am I a freak? Am I a lesbian? Is any one else like me?
 
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NoDayButToday

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Are you TRYING to be offensive? I'm straight, and I'm still offended by your comments. EDIT: this is not directed at the initial poster (although I am not necessarily sure this board was the best place to post this--off topic perhaps?), but to those who made rude remarks instead of maintaining a mature compassionate thread.
 
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thefrogprincess

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Are you a freak?? No, no one is a freak and I hate it when people use that word. Life is not a circus and we are not in it for show.

That said, yu are who you are. If you want to experiment with women, do it. Your husband would probably be thrilled. Lets face it, every guy has that fantasy. Humans are sexual creatures, so have your fun, but be safe about it.
 
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anonymous

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Hello, okay, I wiil put my two cents in. I am a female and I am married to a wonderful man. When I was in High School, I started to think about women and what is would be like. So, my best friend and I got together and explored eachother. It was awesome cause we had known eachother on all other grounds and now we knew eachother on every end. From that experience, I would actually like to have a girl that I could please and she could please back, because, i am sorry but no man could ever do as well as another women!! Women no what other women like!! (dont get me wrong i have a wonderful sex life with my hubby!) I feel that you should be who you really are, dont be affraid to show it! TO everyone who doesnt like it than that is their problem and they should just keep it to themselves. Just as long as they arent bugging you to do something!!!! Anyways, the moral to the story, Yah i might have woman to woman thoughts, am i a lesi? I dont belive in those words and if you want to call me bi I really dont care because if you dont like who i am than just dont talk to me or be my friend!!!! Be Yourself and have pride in yourself.


Cariann 20 oahu w/ cf cfrd mrsa
 
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anonymous

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So what if she is or not, its not hurting you so its okay. Let people be who they want to be... It would suck to be someone you are not... I say if you are a female and like other females go for it, dont be affraid, and dont listen to what anyone says about it... And if you are a male and you like males go for it too!! Be yourself.

Cariann oahu 20 w/cf cfrd mrsa
 
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Emily65Roses

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Yes you are being rude. If she is a lesbian (which is debatable, as none of us are in her head), then okay, she's a lesbian. But no matter which way you slice it, calling her a "huge dyke" is outright offensive and you know it.
 
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anonymous

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<blockquote>Quote<br><hr><i>Originally posted by: <b>dumpdaily</b></i><br>you're a huge dyke<hr></blockquote>

your user name is very offensive......why???
 
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Mockingbird

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To "chicken' Don't worry about the rude people on here (is there only one this time, or more? Ah, well, it doesn't matter =-)

I really can't be of any help... Hell, I hardly have any libido at all! =-) The doctors think that's a bit of a problem, but that's another story. Anyway, just hang in there, cause I'm sure there's someone who can relate.... and eventually the jerks all get bored or kicked off, so we never have to put up with them for too long. =-)

Jarod
22 w/cf
 
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anonymous

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Id like to say, first of all, being gay nowadays is as commen as being straight. And to Dumpdaily, (which is a retarded name I might add) who are you to judge one's sexuallity???!!! You are awful! The name calling is so uncalled for. Didnt your mom ever tell you "if you cant say something nice, dont say nothing at all?" Anyway, Im not gay or anything but like most girls I have had thoughts of it, I know people who are gay and I totally support their desision. Sometimes I wish I was gay, cause dealing with a woman would probably be a lot easier then dealing with whiny men <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
 
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tessa55454

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Hi

It would be nice to know your name, but since I do not, i just wanted to comment. My name is Tessa. I dealt with coming out a few years ago, when I was 22 years old. I am now, thankfully, 27. Coming out is an on-going process with new friends, or work if you perfer to go that route.

Coming out wasn't fun. I started speaking graduallly to a very dear friend of mine about possible having feelings/attractions for women. She kind of already knew something. Her boyfriend, matter-of-factly, asked my friend what i perferred. At that time, I was not at the coming-out stage in my life.

I acutally had a very wonderful experience with a friend of mine in HS, and I had fallen in love with her. Many of my friends knew of that situation, however it was in HS. I did not really have another strong attraction to a woman until I was around 22. (I had difficultly concentrating while I was talking to this cute girl taht liked me an aweful lot).

CF is hard, we know this. But, coming-out is different type of experience. It's acknowledging who you are or might be. It's being truthful to yourself. I would much rather be a lesbian than have CF. sharing intimate moments with a woman, awwww...so fabulous.

I have a girlfriend for over a year now, and we live together, and we are happy. I wouldn't have it any other way. My friends are very supportive. My family, took a little time, but you know...it's life, it's good for them to buck-up and take it.

If you wish to speak more privately...my email is tessamus@yahoo.com

take it easy,
Tessa
 
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