Hi! I have a daughter who is four years, and when she was three months shy of her second b-day, I decided she would learn to swallow the enzymes just like that...whole. I realize that not all children are the same, however, I find that alot of parents tend to feel guilty in alot of decisions that are made regarding their child. I was one of them, but you know, it is something that is never going away (C.F.), and to teach them to be confident, secure, and proud of who they are, reflects on the way they deal with their illness. At age 2, I didn't take "NO" for an answer, and at 6, it wouldn't even be an option. We do what we have to do , to make their lives better later on, and if TELLING them that, that is just the way it goes, trust me, they will learn. It sounds more like you're babying him/her, and that is trouble. If he/she was an adult, would you be saying "okay sweetheart, just don't worry, we'll crush them up for you!" I don't think so. Practice, practice, practice makes perfect and don't be too easy to give up with them. Unless there is a medically proven fact, such as a small throat, their is no reason she can't swallow them whole. Don't meen to sound cold and harsh, however, sometimes a little push does the trick. It worked for me, I hope it can work for you. good luck and take care!!!!