Hi Martha, Pain is a big worry pre tx, but the lung tx teams know that...if you are in pain, you will not exercise. And they want you out of bed as soon as possible and that most likely means the day after surgery... As I say.."No Rest for the Weary". Pain is taken care of. And if you have pain, let them know and ask for more meds. Most likely you will have a pain button to give you meds when you want, or a spinal pain delivery (forgot the name now!!!!LOL), also if I had more pain than the meds could handle, I would let my nurse know and she would bolis me with more pain meds. I also let my team know that pain was a huge fear for me, and throwing up... So I have an idea that was written in my file and that gave them some warning that they better keep on top of my pain.Not sure what center you are going to. But yes, some centers will want you to get rid of certain animals. Not every center says no to cats, but many still do. Birds!!!!! A big NO NO in the tx world. Birds, cats, reptiles, rodents are the biggest source of infections and bacteria and you don;t want to shorten your life with being exposed and catching them. How about a friend adopting your parrot? That way you can visit, with a mask on of course.Preparing for it mentally??? I am not sure we ever get to a comfortable spot, but some do claim they do. It is normal and expected to have fears right up to surgery, so don't let that discourage you. It does not indicate you should not be doing a lung tx. Just means you are normal. I think for me, when I was struggling just to eat, or just to walk to the car, with O2 on and not doing well... I had a feeling " I am ready, or let me die". Just a process that happens. But, when they rolled me into surgery, I was coughing of course and I told the techs pushing me "I don't need this.. I just have a little cough. It will go away". So you can see I was still reluctant. I think they put the mask on my face to shut me up at that point or pushed some IV meds to knock me out, as I don't remember what their response was to my statement!!! LOLBelow I am going to put some hints for pre and post tx. I have them at my site.... .I hope this site will accept it.. If not, I will post them separate, or you will have to go to my site to read it...Here it goes... please feel free to ask any questions.From Joanne Pre Transplant Hint: When I got the word that I was listed for lungs, and knowing that I would have to relocate 700 miles, I started making plans immediately. I began to make lists of items I would need and then in the next year hopefully acquire them. As I got the items, I did not use them, rather pack them into boxes prepared for the move and then label the box clearly. I also began researching for apartments to live. As I was not yet with a computer, I set to Chamber of Commerces and requested books on apartments, utilities, banks, grocery stores, and also phone books for the area. I contacted the AAA and got maps for the area so that when I found an apartment complex, I could locate it easily on my map and see if it was within my range. When I went to my transplant center for clinic appointments, I took my list and we would tour the apartments to see what the possibilities were. Glad I did this as some sounded nice from the information packets they sent me, but when I toured them, they were not exactly what I wanted. My criteria may of been diffferent than others, but I wanted only professionals or graduate students. A pool, and nice grounds was important, along with a walking area for post tx walks. I also wanted an easy commute to my center and preferably in the opposite direction that most employees of the hospital were coming from. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------From Phil Pre Transplant Hint: My wife and I decided that when my transplant call came that we would purchase a new mattress, get the rugs cleaned and new linens were bought. The mattress was old and in need of replacement, so it was the perfect timing. As my energy level was rather low at this pre tx time, we would go to one mattress store a week and try out the options for comfort. Our oldest daughter put the call in when my lung arrived. I have been sleeping great ever since. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------From Tracy Pre Transplant Hint: As I have one young child and 2 grandchildren, I have begun to train them in good hygiene. I try to make it fun, and relate it to their own daily lives so that they will also stay healthy by using simple routines of washing hands and covering mouths. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------From Kurt Pre Transplant Hint: For myself, staying busy was the key to good mental health pre transplant. I worked as much as I could, without hurting my health. This provided that much needed social involvement, and feeling of accomplishment. It also allowed me not to think about the upcoming transplant, which would get my nerves on edge. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------From Pat Pre Transplant Hint: I joined a support group at the local hospital. It is a Better Breathers group. Some of the members are pre transplant and it was a good way to feel a bonding with them. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------From Steve Pre Transplant Hint: At the request of my wife, we began to look into good sources of good face masks for post tx health. We also wanted to be able to buy Purell in large quantities. We still have not found an easier way to do that, other than ordering online. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------From Carrie Pre Transplant Hint: As I need some funding for the relocation costs, my family and friends and a local library group I belong to have formed a "Lung Fund" for myself. They are finding various ways to raise money. We are also excited about getting the word out about organ donation. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------From Walter Pre Transplant Hint: Stay busy and keep a positive attitude. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------From Joyce Pre Transplant Hint: Be sure to stay connected to the world outside. Enroll in classes at your local schools for continuing education classes. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------From Linda Pre Transplant Hint: Add structure to your day and set daily targets. Each day I write one note to someone ( thank you, how are you). Each day I try to learn something new either on nutrition, medical knowledge, medication information, resources of possible areas that I will need post transplant. My goal is that everyday I read at least one page of the book I am reading. It is sometimes hard to concentrate, but this is something I try to do every day. My day always has a 15 minute period where I spend my time in spiritual thinking, either meditation, religious reading or prayers. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------From Greg Pre Transplant Hint: My feeling is to find someone, a relative or a friend who is willing to spend as much time as possible with you. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------From LauraPre Transplant Hint: I am asked often what to pack for "the call". Well from my experience and others I have talked to... don't bring a suitcase. You will come out of surgery and be in ICU. You are provided for here in everyway. Also, you will not be "conscious" enough to know who is coming and going in your room...so your stuff may not be safe. My suggestion is to put some stuff together in a bag for a family member to bring when you go to a regular room. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------From: JoannePost Transplant Hints: My hints are for when you first get home from the hospital. My family cleaned the apartment. They tossed all my bedpillows out. I had a new mattress, since the old was time to be replaced (mattresses are about 15 years of life). New linens were bought to replace the old worn out ones. A "hand cleaning center" was established at the door. On this center was "Purell", masks, Alcohol wipes, spray bottle with Alcohol ( this was used to spray the bottom of all shoes that entered the apartment) being suppressed and being at the hospital so often, we wanted to kill any bacteria, cepacia or what have you that may of been picked up. There was a sign on the center that everyone must stop and clean their hands. Also a sign was up indicating that if you had a cold, please do not enter. There were masks, for those who felt the need or extra cautious. Just a few of the things we did right after tx. More to come. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------From Donna Post Transplant Hint: When I go to doctors, dentists etc offices. they always want a list of my post transplant drugs. Way to many for me to recall. So I put them in a document on my computer and have printed out several copies and hand them out to those who request. This makes it easy to update to. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------From Pat Post Transplant Hint: As a new recipient and rather nervous with my new life that lies ahead of me, I felt the need to make my nerves less frazzled in case I need to go to my center on an emergency. I have packed a suitcase just for this purpose. Nothing leaves it and it is ready to go on a moments notice. Thank goodness I have not yet needed it, but I feel relaxed knowing it is there ready to go. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------From Tammy Post Transplant Hint: I organize my pills in film containers. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------From Steve Post Transplant Hint: I keep a list of phone numbers for my Transplant Center, Coordinator, and my general practice doctors right by each phone. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------From Dave Post Transplant Hint: My pills are organized in a tackle box. I think my center must have stock in tackle boxes as they suggested this system to all of the post tx people. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------From Elaine Post Transplant Hint: At our back door I have "Out & About" items in a carry bag. It includes 1. Mask 2. Hand Cleaner 3. Meds 4.Phone numbers for doctors 5. and my money!!! --------------------------------------------------------------------------------From Joanne Post Transplant Hint: I never use public pens, especially those in doctors offices and pharmacy. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------From Susan Post Transplant Hint: When my family and I go to the zoo, I avoid the indoor bird display. Only outdoor areas I will observe. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------From Pam Post Transplant Hint: My day to day medical issues, actions taken and if solved I keep in a notebook so that I can look back if the issue arises again. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------From Sara Post Transplant Hint: Buckle Up for Safety!!! --------------------------------------------------------------------------------From Susan Post Transplant Hint: I carry extra masks in all our vehicles for dusty situations. I also roll windows up, turn the ventilation to "recycle" and shut off the intake air while in the offending area. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------From Johns Hopkins Medical InstitutionsPost Transplant Hint: Nature sights and sounds during bronchoscopy. Distracting patients during and after bronchoscopy with a colorful mural of a meadow and the gurgle of a babbling brook significantly enhances efforts to reduce pain. The doctors emphasized that the sound and sight distraction is not a substiute for pain medication, but one of several complementary medicine approaches being explored. Patients looked at cloth murals by their bedside and listened to nature sounds through headphones and a tape player. ( for examples: http://www.bedscapes.com). --------------------------------------------------------------------------------From AmandaPost Transplant Hint: I know cepacia is found in water that is why it is so easy for CF's to get through nebulizers..... I poor bleach down our drains quite often to try and kill off anything ... bathroom sink ..... tub ... toilet... kitchen sink you get the idea.... I also try to bleach off the railings for the stairs and all light switches, door knobs and the PHONE is a huge one and the keyboard for the computer. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------From JoannePost Transplant Hint: I finally found my list of hints for the in patient. 1) Clipboard to hold paper while I wrote on it. 2) Wipe board - an alternative to a clipboard and paper 3) Big black marker and big sheets of paper to write on. (the new meds may make you shakey and also not able to write the way you ordinarily do. 4) You may want to borrow some large clothes. I needed socks and sneakers that were much larger than I wore, but due to surgery, the water and air I was puffed up with, I needed much larger clothes. I was about 107 pre tx, and came out of surgery at 160. 5) Ask for a fan, you may be hot. Not sure why hot is a common thing after tx, but for me it was. 6) Those rolls of tape laying all over the place that nurses leave around - keep it to hang your cards on the walls! --------------------------------------------------------------------------------CHECK THESE OUT - from "LUNGS FOR LIFE"Transplant Awareness Bracelet -$18.00CF Awareness Bracelet -$18.00Joanne's Bracelet -$14.00These 3 bracelets are just a few of the items that Lungs for Life has at their store. To read about these 3 bracelets, to order any of these items, please go to the following web site.http://www.lungsforlife.org/other_ways/lfl_store.htmJoanne M. SchumCystic FibrosisBi-lateral Lung Transplant RecipientSeptember 12, 1997University of North Carolina Hospitals Chapel HillResidence: Upstate New Yorkemail: luckylungsforjo@aol.comManager of: Transplant Support - Lung, Heart/Lung, Hearthttp://groups.msn.com/TransplantSupportLungHeartLungHeart"Taking Flight - Inspirational Stories of Lung Transplantation" Compiled by Joanne SchumAuthored by lung recipients around the worldhttp://www.trafford.com/robots/02-0497.htmlhttp://www.trafford.com/