Word is coming out of the woodwork about the credability of AMBRY's test, and admittadely I once endorsed them. Here is a link to a previous topic I posted..... <a target=new class=ftalternatingbarlinklarge href="http://forums.cysticfibrosis.com/messageview.cfm?catid=5&threadid=4194&FTVAR_MSGDBTABLE=">http://forums.cysticfibrosis.com/messageview.cfm?catid=5&threadid=4194&FTVAR_MSGDBTABLE=</a>. Most insurance companies are more likely to cover Quest, they are a reputable and popular company and have been around for decades. The same can't be said for Ambry. Not that Ambry is bad, but, well, you'll see if you visit the other post and if you visit the sites.
You said your wife is a carrier, is the history of CF on just her side or yours as well? Personally, I would opt for the blood test, but on you if you are looking for answers right now. Otherwise, you can wait until the baby is born and test the baby at that time. Sometimes people can't wait, I don't think I could.
As far as your question about blood test versus sweat test, it's a complicated question with no true answer. Many CFers have had repeated negative sweat tests, only to be blood tested and found to have CF because of the 2 CF mutations. Other CFers have had positive sweat tests but the blood tests (the advanced test like from Quest) can only find one mutation. Other CFers have had a positive sweat tests but no mutations or only one mutation show up on a limited blood panel, and then go on to have their blood tested by quest and they find one or both of the mutations. Sweat tests are also somewhat inaccurate on infants up to a certain age (not sure what age, parents help me out here....). I would say it boils down to the knowledge of the doctor or CF center you will take your infant to for testing, your insurance coverage (will they cover a sweat test and then a blood test just to "be sure") and how much you might have to pay out of pocket if the sweat test shows nothing or borderline but you want a blood test and insurance won't pay.... these things might limit your choices.
Either way, best of luck and please do let us know the results whichever route you choose.