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Wheezie

New member
I didn't want to hijack danyell's post, but reading it brought up a big issue for me that I'm hoping maybe some of you might be able to help me with.

I'm currently working outside the home and in March I finally had to reduce my hours to half-time. This has worked so much better for my health, allowing me to take better care of myself and not get too stressed or worn out. But financially, I'm really struggling. It's to the point where now I'm looking for side jobs to supplement my income, which completely negates the working part-time goal.

I also keep struggling with the fact that I just don't want to work at all. I feel like my time is limited, I don't want to waste it behind a desk. But the catch 22 is that I need $ to be able to do the things I want to do. Does anybody else feel this way?

I'm not married, live alone, and really, REALLY don't want to get a roommate (which I have tried, so I know it doesn't work well for me). Thinking about moving back home with my mom makes me feel like a total loser - I know it's irrational, but I can't help it.

I guess I'm just venting. There's no real solution to my problem other than acceptance. Sometimes it just sucks.
 

Wheezie

New member
I didn't want to hijack danyell's post, but reading it brought up a big issue for me that I'm hoping maybe some of you might be able to help me with.

I'm currently working outside the home and in March I finally had to reduce my hours to half-time. This has worked so much better for my health, allowing me to take better care of myself and not get too stressed or worn out. But financially, I'm really struggling. It's to the point where now I'm looking for side jobs to supplement my income, which completely negates the working part-time goal.

I also keep struggling with the fact that I just don't want to work at all. I feel like my time is limited, I don't want to waste it behind a desk. But the catch 22 is that I need $ to be able to do the things I want to do. Does anybody else feel this way?

I'm not married, live alone, and really, REALLY don't want to get a roommate (which I have tried, so I know it doesn't work well for me). Thinking about moving back home with my mom makes me feel like a total loser - I know it's irrational, but I can't help it.

I guess I'm just venting. There's no real solution to my problem other than acceptance. Sometimes it just sucks.
 

Wheezie

New member
I didn't want to hijack danyell's post, but reading it brought up a big issue for me that I'm hoping maybe some of you might be able to help me with.

I'm currently working outside the home and in March I finally had to reduce my hours to half-time. This has worked so much better for my health, allowing me to take better care of myself and not get too stressed or worn out. But financially, I'm really struggling. It's to the point where now I'm looking for side jobs to supplement my income, which completely negates the working part-time goal.

I also keep struggling with the fact that I just don't want to work at all. I feel like my time is limited, I don't want to waste it behind a desk. But the catch 22 is that I need $ to be able to do the things I want to do. Does anybody else feel this way?

I'm not married, live alone, and really, REALLY don't want to get a roommate (which I have tried, so I know it doesn't work well for me). Thinking about moving back home with my mom makes me feel like a total loser - I know it's irrational, but I can't help it.

I guess I'm just venting. There's no real solution to my problem other than acceptance. Sometimes it just sucks.
 

Wheezie

New member
I didn't want to hijack danyell's post, but reading it brought up a big issue for me that I'm hoping maybe some of you might be able to help me with.

I'm currently working outside the home and in March I finally had to reduce my hours to half-time. This has worked so much better for my health, allowing me to take better care of myself and not get too stressed or worn out. But financially, I'm really struggling. It's to the point where now I'm looking for side jobs to supplement my income, which completely negates the working part-time goal.

I also keep struggling with the fact that I just don't want to work at all. I feel like my time is limited, I don't want to waste it behind a desk. But the catch 22 is that I need $ to be able to do the things I want to do. Does anybody else feel this way?

I'm not married, live alone, and really, REALLY don't want to get a roommate (which I have tried, so I know it doesn't work well for me). Thinking about moving back home with my mom makes me feel like a total loser - I know it's irrational, but I can't help it.

I guess I'm just venting. There's no real solution to my problem other than acceptance. Sometimes it just sucks.
 

Wheezie

New member
I didn't want to hijack danyell's post, but reading it brought up a big issue for me that I'm hoping maybe some of you might be able to help me with.

I'm currently working outside the home and in March I finally had to reduce my hours to half-time. This has worked so much better for my health, allowing me to take better care of myself and not get too stressed or worn out. But financially, I'm really struggling. It's to the point where now I'm looking for side jobs to supplement my income, which completely negates the working part-time goal.

I also keep struggling with the fact that I just don't want to work at all. I feel like my time is limited, I don't want to waste it behind a desk. But the catch 22 is that I need $ to be able to do the things I want to do. Does anybody else feel this way?

I'm not married, live alone, and really, REALLY don't want to get a roommate (which I have tried, so I know it doesn't work well for me). Thinking about moving back home with my mom makes me feel like a total loser - I know it's irrational, but I can't help it.

I guess I'm just venting. There's no real solution to my problem other than acceptance. Sometimes it just sucks.
 

Wheezie

New member
I didn't want to hijack danyell's post, but reading it brought up a big issue for me that I'm hoping maybe some of you might be able to help me with.

I'm currently working outside the home and in March I finally had to reduce my hours to half-time. This has worked so much better for my health, allowing me to take better care of myself and not get too stressed or worn out. But financially, I'm really struggling. It's to the point where now I'm looking for side jobs to supplement my income, which completely negates the working part-time goal.

I also keep struggling with the fact that I just don't want to work at all. I feel like my time is limited, I don't want to waste it behind a desk. But the catch 22 is that I need $ to be able to do the things I want to do. Does anybody else feel this way?

I'm not married, live alone, and really, REALLY don't want to get a roommate (which I have tried, so I know it doesn't work well for me). Thinking about moving back home with my mom makes me feel like a total loser - I know it's irrational, but I can't help it.

I guess I'm just venting. There's no real solution to my problem other than acceptance. Sometimes it just sucks.
 

JennifersHope

New member
i struggle with this very same thing.. I really want to and technically can afford to cut my hours down.. BUt I have a hard time with it.. Especially when my work offers and pays so much money in the incentive program

Our incentive program to work overtime includes an additional $20.00 an hour on top of are salary, and on top of overtime.. which equals a lot of money.. Thing is, I am at the point where I am saying no to it.

It is hard the more money I make, ( at this point I am saving it all) the more money I want to make...

WHen I move to SC I will be working 30 hours a week, That is a lot less for me than I work now.. and I am going to have to tape my mouth shut to not work overtime.

I also feel the same way as you, life is to short.. I don't want to spend all my time working... I want to enjoy my life.. and do things out side of work. Life is about taking chances..

Some times saying No and working less is the way to go....

Jennifer
 

JennifersHope

New member
i struggle with this very same thing.. I really want to and technically can afford to cut my hours down.. BUt I have a hard time with it.. Especially when my work offers and pays so much money in the incentive program

Our incentive program to work overtime includes an additional $20.00 an hour on top of are salary, and on top of overtime.. which equals a lot of money.. Thing is, I am at the point where I am saying no to it.

It is hard the more money I make, ( at this point I am saving it all) the more money I want to make...

WHen I move to SC I will be working 30 hours a week, That is a lot less for me than I work now.. and I am going to have to tape my mouth shut to not work overtime.

I also feel the same way as you, life is to short.. I don't want to spend all my time working... I want to enjoy my life.. and do things out side of work. Life is about taking chances..

Some times saying No and working less is the way to go....

Jennifer
 

JennifersHope

New member
i struggle with this very same thing.. I really want to and technically can afford to cut my hours down.. BUt I have a hard time with it.. Especially when my work offers and pays so much money in the incentive program

Our incentive program to work overtime includes an additional $20.00 an hour on top of are salary, and on top of overtime.. which equals a lot of money.. Thing is, I am at the point where I am saying no to it.

It is hard the more money I make, ( at this point I am saving it all) the more money I want to make...

WHen I move to SC I will be working 30 hours a week, That is a lot less for me than I work now.. and I am going to have to tape my mouth shut to not work overtime.

I also feel the same way as you, life is to short.. I don't want to spend all my time working... I want to enjoy my life.. and do things out side of work. Life is about taking chances..

Some times saying No and working less is the way to go....

Jennifer
 

JennifersHope

New member
i struggle with this very same thing.. I really want to and technically can afford to cut my hours down.. BUt I have a hard time with it.. Especially when my work offers and pays so much money in the incentive program

Our incentive program to work overtime includes an additional $20.00 an hour on top of are salary, and on top of overtime.. which equals a lot of money.. Thing is, I am at the point where I am saying no to it.

It is hard the more money I make, ( at this point I am saving it all) the more money I want to make...

WHen I move to SC I will be working 30 hours a week, That is a lot less for me than I work now.. and I am going to have to tape my mouth shut to not work overtime.

I also feel the same way as you, life is to short.. I don't want to spend all my time working... I want to enjoy my life.. and do things out side of work. Life is about taking chances..

Some times saying No and working less is the way to go....

Jennifer
 

JennifersHope

New member
i struggle with this very same thing.. I really want to and technically can afford to cut my hours down.. BUt I have a hard time with it.. Especially when my work offers and pays so much money in the incentive program

Our incentive program to work overtime includes an additional $20.00 an hour on top of are salary, and on top of overtime.. which equals a lot of money.. Thing is, I am at the point where I am saying no to it.

It is hard the more money I make, ( at this point I am saving it all) the more money I want to make...

WHen I move to SC I will be working 30 hours a week, That is a lot less for me than I work now.. and I am going to have to tape my mouth shut to not work overtime.

I also feel the same way as you, life is to short.. I don't want to spend all my time working... I want to enjoy my life.. and do things out side of work. Life is about taking chances..

Some times saying No and working less is the way to go....

Jennifer
 

JennifersHope

New member
i struggle with this very same thing.. I really want to and technically can afford to cut my hours down.. BUt I have a hard time with it.. Especially when my work offers and pays so much money in the incentive program

Our incentive program to work overtime includes an additional $20.00 an hour on top of are salary, and on top of overtime.. which equals a lot of money.. Thing is, I am at the point where I am saying no to it.

It is hard the more money I make, ( at this point I am saving it all) the more money I want to make...

WHen I move to SC I will be working 30 hours a week, That is a lot less for me than I work now.. and I am going to have to tape my mouth shut to not work overtime.

I also feel the same way as you, life is to short.. I don't want to spend all my time working... I want to enjoy my life.. and do things out side of work. Life is about taking chances..

Some times saying No and working less is the way to go....

Jennifer
 
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65rosessamurai

Guest
In reference to Jennifer's comment about working O.T., is it possible to only work a few days overtime, and leave a few of the other days to leave work on the regular schedule?
For Wheezie, it's probably not as bad for a female to be living with the parents, than the male "living with the parents".
If your parents are willing to take you in as a "boarding roommate", where you can basically do your own chores, etc., pay a really reasonable boarding fee, then it would seem to be a "half-way" point between living with the parents, living alone, and struggling with your health and living expenses.
Just a few thoughts based on what I've had to deal with in the past.
BTW, I work a 40 hours on the average schedule (sometimes a bit more with O.T.) and had days where I didn't feel like coming in!!
 
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65rosessamurai

Guest
In reference to Jennifer's comment about working O.T., is it possible to only work a few days overtime, and leave a few of the other days to leave work on the regular schedule?
For Wheezie, it's probably not as bad for a female to be living with the parents, than the male "living with the parents".
If your parents are willing to take you in as a "boarding roommate", where you can basically do your own chores, etc., pay a really reasonable boarding fee, then it would seem to be a "half-way" point between living with the parents, living alone, and struggling with your health and living expenses.
Just a few thoughts based on what I've had to deal with in the past.
BTW, I work a 40 hours on the average schedule (sometimes a bit more with O.T.) and had days where I didn't feel like coming in!!
 
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