Hi, My daughter got her port when she was 15. She was completely against it until she had no other choice. Her veins were so scared up they couldn't even get a picc line in. She needed to be on IV antibiotics and so she had one placed. Her CF nurse was so great in explaining it all to her (even though it had been explained before). I will admit she was unhappy about the whole situation to begin with and I posted questions here too. She was not at a children's hospital. They ended up not placing the port where she had requested and she was an unhappy person. We requested that it be moved but the person that placed it flat out said "no, it's not like she's going to have it forever." We quickly reminded him of who he was speaking with and in front of. That she was a patient with CF and yes she probably was going to have it forever. We left very displeased but she was persistant. A couple of months later at a routine appt. with her pediatrician, during the regular, now mom leave the room so I can talk to her alone time, she told her doctor she wanted a second opinion at the children's hospital. He did not object and referred her for a second opinion. The second guy at the children's hospital was great! He asked why, what were her concerns (the same as any 16 year old girl, I want to wear a bikini and go to prom without having to HAVE to find a dress that will cover this up). He asked her expectations, which were not extreme, and he agreed that it could be moved. She had only asked for it to go from one side of the scar to the other about an inch or two. She was a completely different person after that.
You can see a slight bump where the port is. She has hers on the right side just above the breast. Before it was moved she could actually touch it with her chin. She has a small scar that she applied scar reducing medication to. We can see because we know it's there. Friends and family that don't know exactly where it is don't even notice it. She wears regualr bikini, strapless dresses, tanks and spaghetti straps. You can feel the port when you touch it. She doesn't flush it herself although she probably could. She goes into clinic and her most wondeful nurse, Barb, does it for her. She is needle tolerant, she doesn't need Emla. Some people I hear do though. To the people in our clinic it doesn't matter if you need it, what ever will make you comfortable. It was a rough time getting the port. There is so much for teenage girls to go through but then to have something put into their chest or side, it's difficult. Anna is now 18, in her first year of college and after getting her port moved, a happy person. She agrees that it is so much easier than a regular IV or Picc. And just a bit of added info. , she didn't like the picc line at first either she didn't have one until she was 14.
You should ask at your clinic if they have one to show you. They let Anna take it home just before so that she could see where she wanted to have it placed. On her chest above her breast or just below her breast and some of them can even be placed on the arm. She didn't like that idea, the arm. Anna has never complained that she could feel it when she stretches. We did note that she should have it on the right side vs the left side because of the seat belt once she started driving. But now it is lower (since they moved it) that the seat belt isn't much of a concern.
I hope I haven't gone on with more info than you wanted. I just wanted to let you know how our daughter dealt with her port. I think you will be happy with it. With winter coming you will have plenty of time for it to heal and your scar to get to normal color before summer arrives.
Liza
(mom of 2 teen girls w/CF)