Yay!

[NoExcuses]

<b> I must have failed to have seen the sign on this thread that said "Stand by idly while you watch others potentially harm innocent life." </b>

That has never been and never will be something I will subscribe to.

And those of you that do, just to keep the peace of make sure people like you.... <u>shame on you. </u>

 

[NoExcuses]

<b> I must have failed to have seen the sign on this thread that said "Stand by idly while you watch others potentially harm innocent life." </b>

That has never been and never will be something I will subscribe to.

And those of you that do, just to keep the peace of make sure people like you.... <u>shame on you. </u>

 

[bluebelle]

I don't usually offer many opinions...but this topic really struck me...Jessi...let me just offer some unsolicited/well-intended advice...<b>wait</b>...I know that you are very excited about the test results...having a child does not improve a marriage or will it fix things...maybe at first...life is blissful...but reality does rear it's head...and another reality...you do have CF...and you would be entrusting your child's life to someone who is struggling to handle their own...if you are healthy enough to have a child...you are healthy enough to wait...as a mother...trust me when I tell you...you will not want to leave this world worrying if your child is going to be ok...Good luck...

 

[bluebelle]

I don't usually offer many opinions...but this topic really struck me...Jessi...let me just offer some unsolicited/well-intended advice...<b>wait</b>...I know that you are very excited about the test results...having a child does not improve a marriage or will it fix things...maybe at first...life is blissful...but reality does rear it's head...and another reality...you do have CF...and you would be entrusting your child's life to someone who is struggling to handle their own...if you are healthy enough to have a child...you are healthy enough to wait...as a mother...trust me when I tell you...you will not want to leave this world worrying if your child is going to be ok...Good luck...

 

[bluebelle]

I don't usually offer many opinions...but this topic really struck me...Jessi...let me just offer some unsolicited/well-intended advice...<b>wait</b>...I know that you are very excited about the test results...having a child does not improve a marriage or will it fix things...maybe at first...life is blissful...but reality does rear it's head...and another reality...you do have CF...and you would be entrusting your child's life to someone who is struggling to handle their own...if you are healthy enough to have a child...you are healthy enough to wait...as a mother...trust me when I tell you...you will not want to leave this world worrying if your child is going to be ok...Good luck...

 

[djotroy17]

Umm, her post was that if she decides to have a child, he/she won't have CF. Test results is what this post was about, and Sakasuka I think its wrong of you to rain on her parade like that. If you truly have a strong emotions about her not having a child, try sending her a PM and not shout out loud hurtfull opinions. Congradulations on the news, and I hope when you and your husband feel the time is right you make a loving family.

 

[djotroy17]

Umm, her post was that if she decides to have a child, he/she won't have CF. Test results is what this post was about, and Sakasuka I think its wrong of you to rain on her parade like that. If you truly have a strong emotions about her not having a child, try sending her a PM and not shout out loud hurtfull opinions. Congradulations on the news, and I hope when you and your husband feel the time is right you make a loving family.

 

[djotroy17]

Umm, her post was that if she decides to have a child, he/she won't have CF. Test results is what this post was about, and Sakasuka I think its wrong of you to rain on her parade like that. If you truly have a strong emotions about her not having a child, try sending her a PM and not shout out loud hurtfull opinions. Congradulations on the news, and I hope when you and your husband feel the time is right you make a loving family.

 

[katyf13]

Congrats! I know why you posted this happy news. Someday, if and when you are ready to have a kiddo, they won't have cf. That is terrific news! We all know you are working on so much in your life and relationship right now and just wanted to share some happy news for the future. Well, most of us...

 

[katyf13]

Congrats! I know why you posted this happy news. Someday, if and when you are ready to have a kiddo, they won't have cf. That is terrific news! We all know you are working on so much in your life and relationship right now and just wanted to share some happy news for the future. Well, most of us...

 

[katyf13]

Congrats! I know why you posted this happy news. Someday, if and when you are ready to have a kiddo, they won't have cf. That is terrific news! We all know you are working on so much in your life and relationship right now and just wanted to share some happy news for the future. Well, most of us...

 

[Landy]

<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>thefrogprincess</b></i>

He is doing much better. We actually had the blood draw for the testing done BEFORE the suicide attempt. We are NOT planning on trying right away. But its nice to know that when we ARE ready, that we don't have to worry about this particular issue.</end quote></div>

I'm glad first of all that the test came back negative for him being a carrier.<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
I'm glad second of all that he's doing much better.<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif" border="0">
And third-ly, I'm glad you are waiting for awhile until you know that you both are healthy & ready for this responsibility.<img src="i/expressions/sun.gif" border="0">

 

[Landy]

<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>thefrogprincess</b></i>

He is doing much better. We actually had the blood draw for the testing done BEFORE the suicide attempt. We are NOT planning on trying right away. But its nice to know that when we ARE ready, that we don't have to worry about this particular issue.</end quote></div>

I'm glad first of all that the test came back negative for him being a carrier.<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
I'm glad second of all that he's doing much better.<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif" border="0">
And third-ly, I'm glad you are waiting for awhile until you know that you both are healthy & ready for this responsibility.<img src="i/expressions/sun.gif" border="0">

 

[Landy]

<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>thefrogprincess</b></i>

He is doing much better. We actually had the blood draw for the testing done BEFORE the suicide attempt. We are NOT planning on trying right away. But its nice to know that when we ARE ready, that we don't have to worry about this particular issue.</end quote></div>

I'm glad first of all that the test came back negative for him being a carrier.<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
I'm glad second of all that he's doing much better.<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif" border="0">
And third-ly, I'm glad you are waiting for awhile until you know that you both are healthy & ready for this responsibility.<img src="i/expressions/sun.gif" border="0">

 

[thefrogprincess]

Thanks to all of you who understood that I was just wanting to share the good news. I wasn't anticipating getting slapped in the face with people's "helpful" advice, especially after I made a reply stating that we are not going to try right away!

Brian is doing better, it has been VERY hard and I have meltdowns about once a week (I'm entitled though). Brian knows how much this has hurt me and our relationship and he feels terrible about it. He is trying very hard. I blew up at him for not helping around the house the other day. Ok, to be fair, I wasn't feeling very well and Iwas moody anyway, but he got up and cleaned the kitchen, living room, and dining room.

 

[thefrogprincess]

Thanks to all of you who understood that I was just wanting to share the good news. I wasn't anticipating getting slapped in the face with people's "helpful" advice, especially after I made a reply stating that we are not going to try right away!

Brian is doing better, it has been VERY hard and I have meltdowns about once a week (I'm entitled though). Brian knows how much this has hurt me and our relationship and he feels terrible about it. He is trying very hard. I blew up at him for not helping around the house the other day. Ok, to be fair, I wasn't feeling very well and Iwas moody anyway, but he got up and cleaned the kitchen, living room, and dining room.

 

[thefrogprincess]

Thanks to all of you who understood that I was just wanting to share the good news. I wasn't anticipating getting slapped in the face with people's "helpful" advice, especially after I made a reply stating that we are not going to try right away!

Brian is doing better, it has been VERY hard and I have meltdowns about once a week (I'm entitled though). Brian knows how much this has hurt me and our relationship and he feels terrible about it. He is trying very hard. I blew up at him for not helping around the house the other day. Ok, to be fair, I wasn't feeling very well and Iwas moody anyway, but he got up and cleaned the kitchen, living room, and dining room.

 

[julie]

Jessi, this is wonderful news. I know you and Brian have some stuff to work through, but at least when the time comes, you know you have the GREEN LIGHT with this issue <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">.

And don't take it personally, there always has to be someone to bring down your joy. I'm sure you remember it happening to me with the babies on a few occasions. Hard not to take it personally, very hard not to, but just remember that they are coming from a different place than you are, and more often than not it's about them and not really about you.

 

[julie]

Jessi, this is wonderful news. I know you and Brian have some stuff to work through, but at least when the time comes, you know you have the GREEN LIGHT with this issue <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">.

And don't take it personally, there always has to be someone to bring down your joy. I'm sure you remember it happening to me with the babies on a few occasions. Hard not to take it personally, very hard not to, but just remember that they are coming from a different place than you are, and more often than not it's about them and not really about you.

 

[julie]

Jessi, this is wonderful news. I know you and Brian have some stuff to work through, but at least when the time comes, you know you have the GREEN LIGHT with this issue <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">.

And don't take it personally, there always has to be someone to bring down your joy. I'm sure you remember it happening to me with the babies on a few occasions. Hard not to take it personally, very hard not to, but just remember that they are coming from a different place than you are, and more often than not it's about them and not really about you.