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JazzysMom

New member
CF, CFRD, Depression and Libido

<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>lightNlife</b></i>

No problems here; I can be randy as a stoat.



It's a sad thing that so many women, chronic illness or not, try to excuse away their unwillingness to satisfy their husbands by looking to blame a so-called "lack of libido" on hormones, fatigue, mood etc. If more women would just put their own hangups aside and concentrate their efforts on making the men who love us happy, then there would be FAR more happy marriages in this world.



With all the demands we put on men to make ushappy, doesn't it stand to reason that we should give them more of what they want more often? Life's too short to be so selfish.</end quote></div>


I read this to my husband and he says "THANK YOU".
 

JazzysMom

New member
CF, CFRD, Depression and Libido

<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>lightNlife</b></i>

No problems here; I can be randy as a stoat.



It's a sad thing that so many women, chronic illness or not, try to excuse away their unwillingness to satisfy their husbands by looking to blame a so-called "lack of libido" on hormones, fatigue, mood etc. If more women would just put their own hangups aside and concentrate their efforts on making the men who love us happy, then there would be FAR more happy marriages in this world.



With all the demands we put on men to make ushappy, doesn't it stand to reason that we should give them more of what they want more often? Life's too short to be so selfish.</end quote></div>


I read this to my husband and he says "THANK YOU".
 

thelizardqueen

New member
CF, CFRD, Depression and Libido

Well I don't normally have this problem. I have CFRD, I suffer from Anxiety and OCD, and I take anti-depressants. Before the anti-depressants, I had a high sex drive. Now, I still have a high sex drive, but with the depressants, it gives me problems achieving orgasm. So my problems have to do not with CF, but the anti-depressants.
 

thelizardqueen

New member
CF, CFRD, Depression and Libido

Well I don't normally have this problem. I have CFRD, I suffer from Anxiety and OCD, and I take anti-depressants. Before the anti-depressants, I had a high sex drive. Now, I still have a high sex drive, but with the depressants, it gives me problems achieving orgasm. So my problems have to do not with CF, but the anti-depressants.
 

thelizardqueen

New member
CF, CFRD, Depression and Libido

Well I don't normally have this problem. I have CFRD, I suffer from Anxiety and OCD, and I take anti-depressants. Before the anti-depressants, I had a high sex drive. Now, I still have a high sex drive, but with the depressants, it gives me problems achieving orgasm. So my problems have to do not with CF, but the anti-depressants.
 

Jennifer1981

New member
CF, CFRD, Depression and Libido

<u>Very True, Liz.....</u>

Anti-depressants do that. I know it's horrible. A few years ago I was on Wellbutrin. I took it faithfully for about 1 year. The reason I stopped it was because I doubted that it worked and because of the loss of orgasm. I went from have the most wonderful sex to feeling nothing at all. I completely know where you are coming from. Honestly, I stopped them for the sex reason more than the actual not working reason.
 

Jennifer1981

New member
CF, CFRD, Depression and Libido

<u>Very True, Liz.....</u>

Anti-depressants do that. I know it's horrible. A few years ago I was on Wellbutrin. I took it faithfully for about 1 year. The reason I stopped it was because I doubted that it worked and because of the loss of orgasm. I went from have the most wonderful sex to feeling nothing at all. I completely know where you are coming from. Honestly, I stopped them for the sex reason more than the actual not working reason.
 

Jennifer1981

New member
CF, CFRD, Depression and Libido

<u>Very True, Liz.....</u>

Anti-depressants do that. I know it's horrible. A few years ago I was on Wellbutrin. I took it faithfully for about 1 year. The reason I stopped it was because I doubted that it worked and because of the loss of orgasm. I went from have the most wonderful sex to feeling nothing at all. I completely know where you are coming from. Honestly, I stopped them for the sex reason more than the actual not working reason.
 
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