Advice Please

[EmilysMini]

All right so it doesnt look like there was any preaching whatsoever. It wasnt rude or anything, just a suggestion. But Eva, how is it insensitive to say that crisis is over. Id like to hear your reasoning on that one. Its not like it was intended to be rubbed in your face. I assume it was to let people know of her desicion. As far as that double standerd thing goes. I would also like to hear the reasoning behind that one. People come on here for advice, or support or something. not to be told they are horrible or what they did was wrong. not that Im saying thats what was done here. in my opinion, there was none of that done.

 

[EmilysMini]

All right so it doesnt look like there was any preaching whatsoever. It wasnt rude or anything, just a suggestion. But Eva, how is it insensitive to say that crisis is over. Id like to hear your reasoning on that one. Its not like it was intended to be rubbed in your face. I assume it was to let people know of her desicion. As far as that double standerd thing goes. I would also like to hear the reasoning behind that one. People come on here for advice, or support or something. not to be told they are horrible or what they did was wrong. not that Im saying thats what was done here. in my opinion, there was none of that done.

 

[cfgirl38]

November 3rd. She said "crisis over". I beleive you read to much in to things. I never said she was horrible. I said it was too much information. I beleive it was. Eva

 

[cfgirl38]

November 3rd. She said "crisis over". I beleive you read to much in to things. I never said she was horrible. I said it was too much information. I beleive it was. Eva

 

[EmilysMini]

yes I know WHEN it happened. Im was asking WHY you thought so. and I never said you said it was horrible. you said it was insensitive. i dont see how, and from what I can tell many of the people that have posted hear agree that its not. but to each there own i suppose.

 

[EmilysMini]

yes I know WHEN it happened. Im was asking WHY you thought so. and I never said you said it was horrible. you said it was insensitive. i dont see how, and from what I can tell many of the people that have posted hear agree that its not. but to each there own i suppose.

 

[anonymous]

Wow i did not expect this reaction when i first posted this topic. I wantd a tiny bit of advice from people who have cf not for everyone to get into a fight. I was in two minds as to what to do. A)get the morning after pill and put my mind to rest or b) think to myself my bf prob doesn't produce any sperm anyway. but i was NOT about to take the chance that he does and end up pregnant and not happy about it. If he does produce sperm then thats brilliant but not for another few years at Least.
When i said crisis over i didn't mean that in a bad way or a two much info way i was just letting anyone who read the post know that i got it and that i had stopped panicing and that was that. I did not expect all of this i think it got blown way out of proportion.
Sorry to anyone who got offened but next time i think i'll go elsewhere for advice. People aren't suppose to be made feel bad when there panicing and just want a bit of advice on something that not nessesarily everyone agrees on.
I think we shoud just leave it at that. I'm sorry i ever posted the topic.

 

[anonymous]

Wow i did not expect this reaction when i first posted this topic. I wantd a tiny bit of advice from people who have cf not for everyone to get into a fight. I was in two minds as to what to do. A)get the morning after pill and put my mind to rest or b) think to myself my bf prob doesn't produce any sperm anyway. but i was NOT about to take the chance that he does and end up pregnant and not happy about it. If he does produce sperm then thats brilliant but not for another few years at Least.
When i said crisis over i didn't mean that in a bad way or a two much info way i was just letting anyone who read the post know that i got it and that i had stopped panicing and that was that. I did not expect all of this i think it got blown way out of proportion.
Sorry to anyone who got offened but next time i think i'll go elsewhere for advice. People aren't suppose to be made feel bad when there panicing and just want a bit of advice on something that not nessesarily everyone agrees on.
I think we shoud just leave it at that. I'm sorry i ever posted the topic.