I have the same problem, but it doesn't really bother me anymore. It is kind of annoying when people who don't know about it keep asking why I'm nervous or scared, though. I tell them that's just normal for me to shake like that, although they almost never believe me.
But what the hell, if they're going to be around me a lot, they'll see for themselves I'm telling the truth, and if they aren't, then it doesn't really matter, because I won't be seeing them again, anyway. =-)
you'll probably get pissed at me, too, but I agree with your doctor. To hell with people and what they think of me. If they can't get over my shakes, then I'll just let one of my farts and really give them something to talk about. =-)