Mike, I could not have said it better. I feel the same away...I always feel they would be better off without me..ugh the guilt! It sucks to have my dignity taken away when i am sick or vomiting or in the hospital. I am 40 now and have been in and out of many relationships. When I was 23 the world was open to me and I really could care less if I had a partner...my friends were enough at times. Carly, if you are not sure then do not get married. You are really young (what is the rush)? Now that I am older I am looking to get married and settle down and start a family. It took me until I was 38 to find my soulmate but I am deeply in love and very happy. Don't settle...find your perfect match.
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Any of yall feel like youd be happier just on your own?
- Thread starter carly23
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Thanks yall <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">...ive told my boyfriend i do not want to ge married he said he jus felt he needed to put a ring on my finger to show me how much he really does love and care about me which was so sweet!..but i dont know i just dont know like when we eventually get a place together hes talkn like i should put the electric and water in my name and the house would be on his name to be honest i dont want my name on anythig as what if we dont work out and then im in debt with this crap lol ...im thinkn proly way to far but hey its true thats why im quite ok with him only havin his name on the house lol but thing is hes got bad credit i got excellent but again im not takin a chance of having my credit screwd up!..im jus real unsure about these things to ...i feel its normal on those worries ***** im only on ssdi my mney sucka nt even 1000$ a month so i dont know at least if im on my own then i can take care of things myself n nt worry if my other half cant pay stuff like the house bills or somethin i dnt know..
Thanks yall <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">...ive told my boyfriend i do not want to ge married he said he jus felt he needed to put a ring on my finger to show me how much he really does love and care about me which was so sweet!..but i dont know i just dont know like when we eventually get a place together hes talkn like i should put the electric and water in my name and the house would be on his name to be honest i dont want my name on anythig as what if we dont work out and then im in debt with this crap lol ...im thinkn proly way to far but hey its true thats why im quite ok with him only havin his name on the house lol but thing is hes got bad credit i got excellent but again im not takin a chance of having my credit screwd up!..im jus real unsure about these things to ...i feel its normal on those worries ***** im only on ssdi my mney sucka nt even 1000$ a month so i dont know at least if im on my own then i can take care of things myself n nt worry if my other half cant pay stuff like the house bills or somethin i dnt know..
Thanks yall <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">...ive told my boyfriend i do not want to ge married he said he jus felt he needed to put a ring on my finger to show me how much he really does love and care about me which was so sweet!..but i dont know i just dont know like when we eventually get a place together hes talkn like i should put the electric and water in my name and the house would be on his name to be honest i dont want my name on anythig as what if we dont work out and then im in debt with this crap lol ...im thinkn proly way to far but hey its true thats why im quite ok with him only havin his name on the house lol but thing is hes got bad credit i got excellent but again im not takin a chance of having my credit screwd up!..im jus real unsure about these things to ...i feel its normal on those worries ***** im only on ssdi my mney sucka nt even 1000$ a month so i dont know at least if im on my own then i can take care of things myself n nt worry if my other half cant pay stuff like the house bills or somethin i dnt know..