i use a cleaning service from time to time, esp when i'm sick.
i put it off for so long bc i felt soooo guilty. i came from a 'wonder mom' that did IT ALL. (baked <b>everything</b> from scratch, did my chest pt, read everynight to us, milked a cow, all while having a spotless home and being a size 4...yeah, makes you cringe, right?!)
but the bottom line is, life is at a totally different pace now. if you can afford it, and aren't going into debt for it-you have every right to get help.
this past year i put every ounce of my being into 1. my daughter, and 2. improving my health. i didn't want to be exposed to the odors of cleaning products anymore, and i wanted the whole of the house to be regulalrly dusted out. they take a hepa filter and dust every surface-even the walls and filter the mattresses.
we have budgeted cash aside for me to get cleanings every couple months. i do weekly maintenance cleaning and they do a major cleaning every 6-8 weeks.
i figure it this way- it takes 4 people 3 hours to clean and hepa filter my home. that means it would take me 12 straight hours..but at a pace that i physically don't have the stamina for.
you know what, i would have paid for my mom to have a maid if i could have-she would have deserved it. i think i do too. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">