Laurie, it's ok that we don't agree. No hard feelings on my end <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> I understand as a parent that hearing something like that may seem harsh to you. But it is the truth. And you are right, we are all going to die someday. It's just that most CFers know HOW they are going to die, and that it will be SOONER than most. And some are still being given information that they going to die in their early 20's.... So when life gets tough, or they go through those oh so rebellious teen years, those thoughts come to mind. I personally think that to an extent, it's really normal.
Just don't be alarmed if your son does express those types of feelings someday. It's good you are open about things and willing to talk it through, but that doesn't always alleviate the pain.
Thanks for the well wishes for our family, it's much appreciated! Same to yours.