<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>SIcklyhatED</b></i> If you're not ready to have a kid, you're not ready to have sex, plain and simple. (coming from an almost 19-year-old). We had a a guest baby in class the other day for observation--cutest thing ever, but the child of young, irresponsible parents who had essentially made this child a Shaken Baby. Brain damage, cerebral palsy, the whole 9 yards. I'll get off my soap box now.</end quote>
In that case if you are unemployed and you cant afford a baby you are not ready to have sex???? Come on!! sex is a lot more than a way to get pregnant!!!
By the way, one advice for faerush, if it is the first time for both you and your boyfriend dont expect too much from the experience. First time usually is a disaster, just like any other activity that needs a little practice to be done right. Just remember the first time you drove a car.