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Hi, I was wondering if anyone else has struggled with this as well.
First I should give a bit of background... when I was little I was sick quite a lot, in and out of the hospital constantly, but since I was 8 I was very healthy and not in again for 12 years. Unfortunatly, this recent bout of hospitalization has really had a negative impact on me... I was studying in Wales, on an exchange year, and got sick at the end of the year, spent 2 and a half weeks in hospital there, including 1 week in ICU... The staff were wonderful but it was a regional hospital and there were no CF doctors, so I probably didn't get the care I really needed. We all thought I was better though, and I was released... still with a bit of a cough, and very weak, naturally, but feeling optimistic, I felt like it was over and everything would be all right. I had had plans to work in Scotland that summer with my friend, and at this point I thought they were just postponed, I would go home for a month and recover and then come back (and also get to see my boyfriend again, who lives in London).
But it didn't work out like that. It was only two weeks before I was in hospital again, this time back home in Calgary (Canada) and with my regular CF doctor. I was miserable there, I hate hospitals and I'd already felt enough, and it was clear my plans of going back weren't going to happen. I suppose I should be thankful that I did get all the way better in the two weeks there, but I was very depressed, I cried all the time and lost interest in things... My doctor told me I might have to reconsider going back to school in the fall (I attend university on the other side of the country) and I became so upset, I felt just despair, like my life as I knew it was over, like I would keep getting sick and never get to do anything I wanted to, like travel or see my boyfriend, ever again.
Most of this went away after a little while, although all summer I wasn't especially happy, but there are a lot of factors there I won't go into. However, upon coming back to school this fall (I didn't get sick again over the summer) I entered into a severe depression, I felt like I just couldn't cope, overwhelmed by everything, so sad and miserable and pessimistic. I am on antidepressants now, which are starting to help, but it's only been 3 weeks. Furthermore, I seem to have a bit of a lung infection again and it's scaring me and making the feelings worse... I coughed until I threw up this morning which made me feel miserable, and again like I couldn't deal with this... I've started geting out of breath when I climb stairs, etc., which only makes me feel like I can't cope even more. I know I need to go to the doctor, so it's temporary, but I feel right now the CF is just making it all worse. When I feel physically all right I get depressed, but then when I'm mentally all right I worry about my physical health. And I'm so scared of it all happening again. It's been just the worst year.
Anyway! I was wondering if anyone has gone through anything similar and has any advice to offer? Thanks so much!
First I should give a bit of background... when I was little I was sick quite a lot, in and out of the hospital constantly, but since I was 8 I was very healthy and not in again for 12 years. Unfortunatly, this recent bout of hospitalization has really had a negative impact on me... I was studying in Wales, on an exchange year, and got sick at the end of the year, spent 2 and a half weeks in hospital there, including 1 week in ICU... The staff were wonderful but it was a regional hospital and there were no CF doctors, so I probably didn't get the care I really needed. We all thought I was better though, and I was released... still with a bit of a cough, and very weak, naturally, but feeling optimistic, I felt like it was over and everything would be all right. I had had plans to work in Scotland that summer with my friend, and at this point I thought they were just postponed, I would go home for a month and recover and then come back (and also get to see my boyfriend again, who lives in London).
But it didn't work out like that. It was only two weeks before I was in hospital again, this time back home in Calgary (Canada) and with my regular CF doctor. I was miserable there, I hate hospitals and I'd already felt enough, and it was clear my plans of going back weren't going to happen. I suppose I should be thankful that I did get all the way better in the two weeks there, but I was very depressed, I cried all the time and lost interest in things... My doctor told me I might have to reconsider going back to school in the fall (I attend university on the other side of the country) and I became so upset, I felt just despair, like my life as I knew it was over, like I would keep getting sick and never get to do anything I wanted to, like travel or see my boyfriend, ever again.
Most of this went away after a little while, although all summer I wasn't especially happy, but there are a lot of factors there I won't go into. However, upon coming back to school this fall (I didn't get sick again over the summer) I entered into a severe depression, I felt like I just couldn't cope, overwhelmed by everything, so sad and miserable and pessimistic. I am on antidepressants now, which are starting to help, but it's only been 3 weeks. Furthermore, I seem to have a bit of a lung infection again and it's scaring me and making the feelings worse... I coughed until I threw up this morning which made me feel miserable, and again like I couldn't deal with this... I've started geting out of breath when I climb stairs, etc., which only makes me feel like I can't cope even more. I know I need to go to the doctor, so it's temporary, but I feel right now the CF is just making it all worse. When I feel physically all right I get depressed, but then when I'm mentally all right I worry about my physical health. And I'm so scared of it all happening again. It's been just the worst year.
Anyway! I was wondering if anyone has gone through anything similar and has any advice to offer? Thanks so much!