Hello Momtocftwins:
The reddness around the site in my case is actually caused by stomach acid. Being a 21 year old girl I'm often concerned with my image and like my feeding tube to be non-noticeable. There fore I had to opt for the PEG tube. This particular tube does not have the best suction on the inside of the stomach and causes stomach acid to leak out when I eat, however it is the smallest tube that I have found out there. So I'm stubborn and basically refuse to get another tube put in. So I have traded a little reddness for the ease of hiding the feeding tube. Not that the feeding tube is anything to hide or be ashamed of, but lets be honest it just doesn't go with my cute, tight shirts <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">. Also when I say a strict schedule, it was strict for me becuase I was strict with myself. I would only let myself skip the feeding tube one night out of seven. So this was hard for me because i liked to sleep out or stay out late with friends and hated to start the feeding tube very very late at night. It was difficult at first for me to balance a normal and very full social life with the tube. I eat all day regular food, and do the feedings at night. I do four cans of supplement over the time that I sleep and go on with my normal day as usual. So I do eat regular food: breakfast, lunch, dinner and snacks. The feeding tube has not held me back from anything that I wanted to do ever! I was very good at balancing when I needed to not skip the feeding tube and when I could. When I was way up on weight I was a little bit easier on myself. If I saw myself losing some weight I would be a little bit more strict again. Believe me when I first got the feeding tube it was so foreign and I NEVER thought that it would become a part of my daily routine. But it does! After a while you just get used to it! Hope this helps!