My boyfriend, now 23 used to drink a whole lot, he's calmed down when he turned 19 but a few months ago he was still trying to do everything fast and quick. Example, we are moving in together in June, he started University this term, it is a certificate (1 year) when he got the idea of doing it he wanted to do it in one year absolutely, I did try to tell him that there was nothing wrong if he wanted to take less classe and take I don't know 2 years or someting (not because I think he can't do it in one year but because with 5 classes in the evening, if he wanted to drop one because it was too much it was FINE and no one would tell him he was lazy). That changed when in August he got in a really bad car accident, I think it made him (and those of us around him) that well CF is not the only thing that could kill him basically, I mean he takes his time to do things now and his parents told me that for the first time in his life their hear their son making plans for the future and they are really happy about it (I mean we're talking kids, wedding, University degrees that he wants to do while working a class a semester (he never would have done that before) and even a house!), He's more relaxed now, takes his time more, I just noticed that change really...I just wish it hadn't taken a car accident! Well, the only thing left for him to accept now is that I love him and want to spend the rest of my life with him! (I have not given up hope, I will convince him!)
Amélie<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif" border="0">