I have to say, everything happens for a reason and exactly when it is supposed to and no sooner.
I am single 33 (no cf) and I have a 5 year old daughter, which has posed alot of problems for me with some of the men I have met. To add to it, as many of you know, my brother has lived with me for quite a while (he has CF).
The way I view it is, my daughter and my brother are and have been a very big part of my life. I made the choice a long time ago to care for my brother and help him through the end stages of his CF without hesitation and without a second thought. Both my brother and my daughter are a part of me, and if the guy I am dating doesn't like those things, then he doesn't like me either.
Now, since I am single if I did meet someone with CF or any other illness and I fell in love. It wouldn't make a difference to me.
My brother is a truely a real man and has a wonderful heart. I could only hope and pray I find a man who is 1/2 of the man he is. He has had several long term relationships, none of which ended because he had CF. He made the decision to end them for other reasons.
There are lots of men and women out there that won't care if you have CF and will love and support you for you. YOU are not CF, you just happen to be a person who has CF.
We all run the risk of having cancer or some other type of disease at any point in our lives. I would NEVER want to be with a person who I felt, if something like that happened to me in the future, wouldn't be there for me and would walk away.
Consider yourself lucky that they walked away now.....It was a blessing.
The older you get the more you realize what you are looking for in a relationship, and each life experience teaches you one more thing. I wish all of you the best in finding that one special person. Trust me, he or she is out there somewhere!
I am single 33 (no cf) and I have a 5 year old daughter, which has posed alot of problems for me with some of the men I have met. To add to it, as many of you know, my brother has lived with me for quite a while (he has CF).
The way I view it is, my daughter and my brother are and have been a very big part of my life. I made the choice a long time ago to care for my brother and help him through the end stages of his CF without hesitation and without a second thought. Both my brother and my daughter are a part of me, and if the guy I am dating doesn't like those things, then he doesn't like me either.
Now, since I am single if I did meet someone with CF or any other illness and I fell in love. It wouldn't make a difference to me.
My brother is a truely a real man and has a wonderful heart. I could only hope and pray I find a man who is 1/2 of the man he is. He has had several long term relationships, none of which ended because he had CF. He made the decision to end them for other reasons.
There are lots of men and women out there that won't care if you have CF and will love and support you for you. YOU are not CF, you just happen to be a person who has CF.
We all run the risk of having cancer or some other type of disease at any point in our lives. I would NEVER want to be with a person who I felt, if something like that happened to me in the future, wouldn't be there for me and would walk away.
Consider yourself lucky that they walked away now.....It was a blessing.
The older you get the more you realize what you are looking for in a relationship, and each life experience teaches you one more thing. I wish all of you the best in finding that one special person. Trust me, he or she is out there somewhere!