I was going to add that when the test results came back -- I cried non-stop for hours. Worried about our son's future. My husband worried that he was going to be the lonely, sickly child, in and out of the hospital that nobody would play with... All I'd known about CF was from a television medical drama where a teenager was very sick.
And then, the CF doctor walked in and took us to a conference room and explained about CF -- history, different aspects about what areas the disease affects, warned us about looking things up in the hospital library or on the internet... And then he called up to the CF floor and asked one of his patients to come down and visit with us. We were shocked. A NORMAL looking, normal acting teenager.
Sure we still went thru several emotional stages -- kinda like the stages of grief -- denial, anger, acceptance. I still worry, still cry. But we take it one day at a time. Got into a routine with his medications, treatments so he can have a normal life.
Today our son is a normal, busy 4 1/2 year old. He goes to preschool. He just started taking skating lessons and thinks he wants to be a hockey player. Though not sure how he's going to manage that if I keep having to hold him up on his skates <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> He's also in gymnastics and last year took swimming lessons. Currently I'm a little stressed because next year he'll be starting regular public school. I'm sure he'll do fine. It's just another one of those milestones and a BIG unknown for a worrier like me.
Oh and during appointments, I always bring along a notebook with questions and to write down things the doctor says. It helps to remember because it's sometimes hard to concentrate on what they're saying while still trying to keep your child occupied.
And then, the CF doctor walked in and took us to a conference room and explained about CF -- history, different aspects about what areas the disease affects, warned us about looking things up in the hospital library or on the internet... And then he called up to the CF floor and asked one of his patients to come down and visit with us. We were shocked. A NORMAL looking, normal acting teenager.
Sure we still went thru several emotional stages -- kinda like the stages of grief -- denial, anger, acceptance. I still worry, still cry. But we take it one day at a time. Got into a routine with his medications, treatments so he can have a normal life.
Today our son is a normal, busy 4 1/2 year old. He goes to preschool. He just started taking skating lessons and thinks he wants to be a hockey player. Though not sure how he's going to manage that if I keep having to hold him up on his skates <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> He's also in gymnastics and last year took swimming lessons. Currently I'm a little stressed because next year he'll be starting regular public school. I'm sure he'll do fine. It's just another one of those milestones and a BIG unknown for a worrier like me.
Oh and during appointments, I always bring along a notebook with questions and to write down things the doctor says. It helps to remember because it's sometimes hard to concentrate on what they're saying while still trying to keep your child occupied.