Since this is like my second family, I've really felt the need to share what is going on with us, and (for honest responses) if I still have a "home"/belong here in light of this information.
Mark has been cheating on me, and this isn't the first time (stupid me, I know). I kicked him out in may of this year for suspicions of cheating on me yet again, and we've been putting on a front for family and friends while we try to decide what we are going to do about our lives and our marriage, I've been in counseling, he was suppose to go but never has. Then we were going to do marriage counseling. Things were actually looking up and he was planning on moving back in when his lease was up in January.
Then I started looking through some phone logs and come to find out he's been talking to a few numbers for outrageous amounts of time. Something just felt WRONG, So I called them last night.... apparently they are dating my husband, had no idea he was still married (he told them he got divorced last october), and that I was a "crazy b**ch". They were very apologetic, had no idea and were disgusted with his behavior.
So I confronted him today and told him that I will be filing for a divorce.
Things are getting ugly, he's refusing to help pay for any of the mortgage, even though this is where his kids live 80% of the time, and I guess I could just use a lot of prayers and well wishes right now.
I still plan to continue with my DAFCF organization, however I'd like some feedback if you think that I would be recieved well in the CF community in light of this information. I'd like to continue doing it, I LIKE working on these disability cases and helping others. But I'm not sure how people would feel working with the "former now divorcee wife" of a CFer. and I can understand/appreciate any reservations people might have about it.
Thank you,
Mark has been cheating on me, and this isn't the first time (stupid me, I know). I kicked him out in may of this year for suspicions of cheating on me yet again, and we've been putting on a front for family and friends while we try to decide what we are going to do about our lives and our marriage, I've been in counseling, he was suppose to go but never has. Then we were going to do marriage counseling. Things were actually looking up and he was planning on moving back in when his lease was up in January.
Then I started looking through some phone logs and come to find out he's been talking to a few numbers for outrageous amounts of time. Something just felt WRONG, So I called them last night.... apparently they are dating my husband, had no idea he was still married (he told them he got divorced last october), and that I was a "crazy b**ch". They were very apologetic, had no idea and were disgusted with his behavior.
So I confronted him today and told him that I will be filing for a divorce.
Things are getting ugly, he's refusing to help pay for any of the mortgage, even though this is where his kids live 80% of the time, and I guess I could just use a lot of prayers and well wishes right now.
I still plan to continue with my DAFCF organization, however I'd like some feedback if you think that I would be recieved well in the CF community in light of this information. I'd like to continue doing it, I LIKE working on these disability cases and helping others. But I'm not sure how people would feel working with the "former now divorcee wife" of a CFer. and I can understand/appreciate any reservations people might have about it.
Thank you,