fondreflections
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Joy,
Do you remember the Stage of your endometriosis? There are four stages. The fourth stage is the worst.
Here are my random thoughts on your situation...
I'm thinking that you had maybe Stage 1 or 2 endo when you conceived your daughter. That is why you were able to become pregnant without even trying. During pregnancy, endo 'shrinks' because your body is suppressing the same hormones that induce monthly periods. Without monthly periods, endo 'shrinks'. However once the birth of a baby, the endo starts 'growing' again and sometimes at a more alarming rate.
I don't know what your grade of endo is now, but I would get a lap. A lap 'removes' the endo. Sometimes if doctors can't remove it all, you end up on Lupron or birth control pills afterwards for a few months anyway. However, you have a much higher rate of success for a much longer time frame.
If you have Stage 3 or 4 endo (for example), 'shrinking' the endo would not be enough. Even if you have Stage 2 endo, it may be located in a very bad place. Thus, a lap is the best route to take to restore fertility.
I have waited 3 years for this lap!!! Mind you, I have increased possible complications which led to me putting it off. Plus, no doctor really wanted to touch me. But I 'wasted' 3 years!!! I'm not really familiar with IUDs, but I'm guessing you started TTC in January or February. So waiting until August is reasonable. After that point, you have to decide.
Like you and I both know, if you take Lupron or the pill, you have to wait for quite awhile. Then, what if you can't get pregnant? You'll feel like you wasted time...I know that feeling all to well. Then, you will most likely end up with a lap anyway. I would most likely try until August and then get a lap rather than just start medication. That's just my take on it. I wouldn't want to lose more time.
With an IUD, do you still get periods??? I have no idea. Do IUDs suppress the 'growth' of endo? If so, maybe TTC until August will work. If not, you may have a problem. That is something I would surely ask you doctor. <img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0">
Do you remember the Stage of your endometriosis? There are four stages. The fourth stage is the worst.
Here are my random thoughts on your situation...
I'm thinking that you had maybe Stage 1 or 2 endo when you conceived your daughter. That is why you were able to become pregnant without even trying. During pregnancy, endo 'shrinks' because your body is suppressing the same hormones that induce monthly periods. Without monthly periods, endo 'shrinks'. However once the birth of a baby, the endo starts 'growing' again and sometimes at a more alarming rate.
I don't know what your grade of endo is now, but I would get a lap. A lap 'removes' the endo. Sometimes if doctors can't remove it all, you end up on Lupron or birth control pills afterwards for a few months anyway. However, you have a much higher rate of success for a much longer time frame.
If you have Stage 3 or 4 endo (for example), 'shrinking' the endo would not be enough. Even if you have Stage 2 endo, it may be located in a very bad place. Thus, a lap is the best route to take to restore fertility.
I have waited 3 years for this lap!!! Mind you, I have increased possible complications which led to me putting it off. Plus, no doctor really wanted to touch me. But I 'wasted' 3 years!!! I'm not really familiar with IUDs, but I'm guessing you started TTC in January or February. So waiting until August is reasonable. After that point, you have to decide.
Like you and I both know, if you take Lupron or the pill, you have to wait for quite awhile. Then, what if you can't get pregnant? You'll feel like you wasted time...I know that feeling all to well. Then, you will most likely end up with a lap anyway. I would most likely try until August and then get a lap rather than just start medication. That's just my take on it. I wouldn't want to lose more time.
With an IUD, do you still get periods??? I have no idea. Do IUDs suppress the 'growth' of endo? If so, maybe TTC until August will work. If not, you may have a problem. That is something I would surely ask you doctor. <img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0">