HI --
I have two girls with CF. My younger one had the gtube and now the mickey button. She is ten now and has had it for a few years. It is amazing because she gained 20 lbs in the first year!!!!
Anyway, I do remember that it was a very difficult time for us. More emotional I think than anything else. It is a big adjustment. To this day, she is very sensitive about the area. She is always fighting me when I try to look at it or touch it. We just went through a battle where it really needed to be changed, the skin around it was infected and she was impossible. I finally took her into the Dr and they changed it and now she is so much happier!! It is also great for when they need meds. They dont have to swallow you can just put it in the tube.
Being a girl, she is very self conscioius of the area. Luckily, we found bikinis this year that had material branching out from the bust area. She also wears a bigger size shirt so it is not tight.
We were really unhappy with the thought of an IV pole in the room permanently. So, what we did is we went to Target. They have really cute coat hangers. Butterflies for the girls and baseballs (I believe) for a boy. The actual pump tightens to the pole and the handles for the coats hold the bags. It is much more pleasant and unscary for a kid to have to look at each day.
For the most part, I believe that these kids are amazing and bounce back with such strength and grace. So, I am sure that your child will do well!!
Let me know if you need any more info. Debra <img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0">