littledebbie
New member
Just wanted to say this happens to me a lot.
question: why is it that when this is happening we can't quite make ourselves turn the sad music off? I mean I know it's not helping and yet I just can't quite do it......weak....so weak....
*sobs quielty into the night* with appropriate background music of course.
Also, SD i get your point and totally think you are right, besides our family and people who actually KNEW us, we'll not really be missed and by 2-3 generations down the road I will be Debbie who? And this is as it should be and as it always has been..I am a grain of sand young grasshopper.
But for those that love me and know me..... their world (not everyones) will always feel my loss. Maybe not everyday or anything but on occassion, that's enough to tell me i mattered, i made a difference - it wasn't pointless. Not like I wish my friends and family to be upset, just remember me that's all, preferably for my stunning movie star appearance, saint like spirit and brilliant comedic wit. Is that really asking too much?
question: why is it that when this is happening we can't quite make ourselves turn the sad music off? I mean I know it's not helping and yet I just can't quite do it......weak....so weak....
*sobs quielty into the night* with appropriate background music of course.
Also, SD i get your point and totally think you are right, besides our family and people who actually KNEW us, we'll not really be missed and by 2-3 generations down the road I will be Debbie who? And this is as it should be and as it always has been..I am a grain of sand young grasshopper.
But for those that love me and know me..... their world (not everyones) will always feel my loss. Maybe not everyday or anything but on occassion, that's enough to tell me i mattered, i made a difference - it wasn't pointless. Not like I wish my friends and family to be upset, just remember me that's all, preferably for my stunning movie star appearance, saint like spirit and brilliant comedic wit. Is that really asking too much?